I AM NOW FREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

thanks millie!!!!! i am still jumping for joy here!!!! we are going out for dinner tonight after work to celebrate and we are so looking forward to a new life together!!!!

thanks for being here for me!!!

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I am so happy for you Judy.  Can I say CONGRATULATIONS on finally being a free woman?

you sure can!!!!!!!! thanks!!!!!!! i love being free from all the BS back in michigan!!!! i am at peace for once in my life!!!

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I am sooooo happy for you! I've been there and it is such a relief to walk out of that courtroom FREE!!!
If you were married 10yrs or more, you are entitled to 1/2 of "his" social security at age 65, or 1/3 of it at age 62 IF you remain unmarried. I'm not sure if this is a state to state thing but ss is a federal agency so I hope this applies to you. I don't need to tell you to have a great day cuz I think you'll be having them for a long time.

Alice

thanks alice!!!! the way his lawyer was questioning me i felt like i committed a murder or something!!!! just glad its over and done with!!!!

we were married 23 years and most of it was a living hell!!!!! so much verbal abuse and doing without....as far as his SS i am not sure how it works...all i know is his pension was "before" we married so that is untouchable for me to get some of it...his SS who knows...just happy i am out of that marriage and his debts!!!! i am sure his daughter is happy also!!! the little biotch!!!!

we will be going out to celebrate tonight thats for sure!!!! WOOOHOOOO!!!!!!!!!!

THANKS AGAIN ALICE!!!

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Judy, I totally understand where you're coming from. I was married for 22yrs to a very abusive creep. The part I think my ex doesn't know about is that I can get part of his ss. I was left with one $5,000 retirement fund from my marriage. I cannot access it yet but that's ok.
Enjoy your Day!!!
Alice

(((alice))) i feel for you sister!!!! my first husband was physically abusive i never knew when he would beat me!!!!!!! that marriage lasted 4 long years only because of the kids...until one night he almost killed me and i knew it was time i left him!!!!!!!! so what did i do?? got involved with gary and went from physical to verbal abuse!!!! no more of that for me now!!!! i have a man that loves me and cherishes me to no end!!!!! and i love him also!!!!

i hope you get his money because you deserve it!!!!

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the SS has nothing to do with his pension--it will be yours- you are entitled to it--so long as you are not married again

congrats to you !!!!!!
tomorrow marks 9 yrs i have been free of my 1st-and 8 yrs since michael and i got together!

WOOOHOOOO MARGO I AM FINALY FREE OF THAT INSANE FAMILY!!!!!!! WOOHOOOOO!!!!!!!!

not sure about his SS or not i just might make more than he did so who needs his then right??? LOL

congrats on your being free and you and michael getting together!!!!

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Hey Judy,

I am sooo happy for you, the future is bright now that the past is behind you.  Wishing you the best of all things!

Laureen