It's Tuesday

Thanks for the hugs and prayers Pat. We're trying very hard to stay neutral and not get in the middle of it and still support them all.  They are both going to marital counseling starting tomorrow with my daughters Pastor.

Hugs, Paulette

Paulette,

I am so sorry to hear this. You are wise to try to stay neutral. So hard! My thoughts are with you.
Annette

Thanks Annette for the kind words.  Today I took care of me and my little Samantha. Then Cheyanne was here after school. We spent time painting some wooden ornaments to use for Christmas.  I bought wreaths that we will put their school pictures in the middle, enough for both sides of the family, grandparents, aunts & uncles and great grandmas. The girls and I had lots of green paint on our fingers but we had fun. Then we played with the WII Fit on some of the balance games and step aerobics.So I got some exercise in and managed to eat my calories today.

Paulette

Paulette,
Take comfort in the little girls as I am sure they take comfort in you. Crafts and fun exercises will make you all feel better. Make some messes and they will be your forever memories. You are a good and loving grandma.

Take care - you are doing your best for yourself and them too.
Annette  

Paulette, it goes without saying that your family is in my prayers. I know that times like this is hard and difficult. You hate to see those that you love so much going through such times. Remember that God will take care of them all and things will be fine if we leave the results up to God. We must do what we can for our problems but we must always remember to leave the results up to God. Please let me know if there is anything at all you need for. I am here for you and Earl when you need me. Remember that I love you and want only the best for you and yours.

Hi Brenda, Thank you so much for your prayers and support.  I spent some time with the girls today and made sure we all ate and had some fun too. Hopefully i will sleep better tonight.  My daughter is doing well, she is more relaxed than she has been in a long time.  She is a strong woman and will be fine. Tomorrow is their first marital counseling appt.at the church my daughter belongs to.  Her husband went to talk to our pastor today, not quite sure why he went there but it is ok. I do believe that God has it all under control.  talk to you soon, Hugs, Paulette

morning barb and my OFF family!!!

ahhh my first full day of freedom!!!!!!!!! life is good again!!! i posted on a seperate post that my divorce is over now so won't go into it here....

had a nice time seeing my mom again sunday afternoon and we went out for dinner with my sister to celebrate her birthday and my soon to be divorce....had a good steak and ofcourse i couldn't eat it all...grrr but it was a good time we shared...i really didn't like being back "home" awful to say the least but dam the hood is getting worse!!!!! told mom i wish she could come back here to ohio with me for awhile...she said not right now...guess when we get our own place she will come stay awhile....i hope so because she will love it here!!! she told me that she sees that rick is taking good care of me and that i looked really happy since she last saw me...guess she likes him more now!!! woohooo

car ran good on the trip but the check engine light came back on so i guess that part has to be fixed....they $300.00 part...grrrrr more money!!!!!! then i need to save for the plates and my drivers license come november....sighs...will we ever have enough to get the hell out of here??? i hope so soon!!!!! we talked last night and are going to see if we can get a loan for that trailer we looked at!!! i would love living in that trailer park...kind of like going to CHEERS where everyone knows you....but still going to look at the apartment complex too...have to see what happens i guess!!

its a chilly morning here today...was 58 when i took rick to work..its now 62...doing the sheets today before i go to work. tomorrow it is clothes...

went to the mall with diane last night and she said she is trying to talk rick into giving nicole his car to drive....she said he never answered her about it...i told her i would take that as a NO but she isn't listening....this woman is possesed on this car and money borrowing all the time to get bills paid....i saw some sitting out on the counter when i went up to do the sheets...omg how can she be so flipping far behind in paying these bills???????????????? i never in my life saw someone so far in debt (besides gary) as they are and still trying to get loans to pay for these bills!! they have already gone the bankruptcy route so that didn't teach them anything....and now she is talking about us seeing this realtor on a house with payments about $600.00 a month...i told her we can take care of what we want ourselves and we don't want a house that expensive!!!!!!!!! that we wanted to be able to make ends meet each month and have money to do things with and not get behind in paying bills!!!!!!! did she listen?? nope just kept talking about us buying a house!!! sighs....i give up!!!! just get me and rick out of here ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!

ok went on the rampage once more...sorry!!! ok off to do some reading on other posts here....thanks again for being here for me!!!!

hugs

Good morning Barb and Friends!
Not much new, 'cept it's my 4 year surgiversary today.  Very mixed emotions, but over all good feelings.
Debbie

Congratulations Debbie. That calls for a special celebration. Let the party begin
Kisses
Annette

Congratulations Debbie,

I am glad you still post after 4 years...I would really miss you if you didn't.

Take Care,
Cheryl