UPDATE ON THE SAGA OF MY LIFE....

WELL I WENT TO OHIO FOR THE JOB INTERVIEW....I WAS OFFERED THE JOB BUT I TURNED IT DOWN...ONLY 18 HOURS WAS PROMISED PER WEEK...NOT WHAT I WAS TOLD ON PHONE!!!!!!!!!!! HE DID SAY THAT IF I FOUND ANOTHER PART TIME JOB THERE HE WOULD STILL HIRE ME....SIGHS....BUT I DID GET SEVERALMORE APPS OUT WHILE THERE AND WILL BE HEARING FROM 3 FOR SURE FOR AN INTERVIEW ON THE 24TH WHEN I CAN GO BACK AGAIN.

GOT TO SEE THE BABY SATURDAY!!! OMG HE IS SOOOOOOOOO CUTE!!!!! HE HAS HIS GRANDPA'S NOSE AND EARS....I TOOK SOME PICTURES AND AM TRYING TO GET THEM DOWNLOADED RIGHT NOW THEN SENDING THEM TO JAN SO SHE CAN ADD THEM TO MY PROFILE FOR ME AND THEN YOU ALL CAN SEE THEM!!!! RICK HELD ANTHONY FOR THE FIRST TIME AND THAT WAS SO AWESOME TO SEE HIM HOLDING HIM.....HE STILL ISN'T HAPPY ABOUT THIS SITUATION BUT I CAN SEE HIS HEART MELTING BIG TIME TOWARDS THSI BABY!!!!

RICK IS HERE WITH ME FOR THE 2 WEEKS BEFORE I CAN GO BACK TO OHIO...HE IS STILL LAID OFF FROM HIS JOB SO HE FIGURED HE WOULD SPEND MORE TIME WITH ME...AWWW HEIS SO GOOD TO ME!!!!  WHEN WE GOT HOME LAST NIGHT AND UNPACKED THE CAR WE WENT TO THE GROCERY STORE FOR FOOD FOR SUPPER....HE MADE ME PORK CHOPS AND POTATOES WITH ONION AND MUSHROOMS....YUMMMM THE MAN CAN COOK SO GOOD!!!!! HE IS A KEEPER FOR SURE!!!!

GOT A LETTER IN THE MAIL FROM GARYS LAWYER FRIDAY BEFORE I LEFT HERE.....SEEMS I AM ASKING FOR WAY TO MUCH!!!!!!!!!! OK FINE WILL GET WITH HIM AND TELL HIM I AM LEAVING THE DAM HOUSE TO GARY THEN AND I JUST WANT A FEW THINGS TO GET ME STARTED IN MY NEW HOME IN OHIO.....SEE HOW THAT GOES....RICK SAID SCREW IT JUST TAKE MY CLOTHES AND GET THE HELL OUT....BUT I WANT A FEW OTHER THINGS TO TAKE WITH ME...LIKE MY BREYER HORSES AND MY HORSE AND DOG PLATES AND MY PICTURES....SOME KEEP SAKES AND A COUPLE OTHER THINGS....OK THAT CAN HAPPEN EVEN IF THIS ASSHOLE LAWYER DOESN'T LIKE IT OR NOT.....SIGHS.....JUST WANT THIS OVER AND DONE WITH SOON!!!!!!!!!!

WELL MY SWEETIE IS GETTING UP NOW SO I MUST SAY BYE FOR NOW.....WILL LET YOU KNOW WHEN THE NEW PHOTOS ARE UP SO YOU CAN SEE THEM!!!

HUGS

Good Morning Sunshine!!! Glad you returned home safely. When I didn't hear from you last night I figured Rick must have come back with you. I know you will be in heaven for the next two weeks for sure!!!! Good luck finding a job...I don't blame you for not taking the other job. If they aren't going to give you what they said the would. That isn't right! Have a wonderful day with your honey.....tell him I said hello!! Hugs sweetie....connie d

HEY CONNIE!!! I AM IN HEAVEN RIGHT NOW!!!!! I FEEL SO MUCH BETTER WITH RICK HERE BY MY SIDE ITS UNREAL!!!!! JUST GOT A FEW PHOTOS DOWNLOADED AND I AM SENDING THEM TO YOU SO YOU WILL BE THE FIRST TO SEE THEM!!!!

RICK SAID HELLO....HE WOULD LIKE TO MEET MY FRIENDS BUT YOU ARE ALL IN THE COMPUTER....WISH YOU WERE CLOSE BY SO WE COULD MEET UP.....

HUGS

Judy....you are so sweet. I wish Icould meet you in person too! I will be watching for those pics!! Have a great week...I just know you will!! Hugs.....connie d

AWWW THANKS CONNIE...YOU ARE SWEET ALSO...

YOU GOT EMAIL....LOL

HUGS

You sound great girl. I wish you the best. It is good to hear you happy!

HEY LINDA...GOOD TO HEAR FROM YOU!!!! YES I AM VERY HAPPY...WILL BE EVEN HAPPIER ONCE WE ARE BOTH LIVING TOGETHER IN OHIO!!!!! THIS HAS BEEN A LONG DRAWN OUT THING TRYING TO DIVORCE GARY!!! BUT IN MY HEART THIS IS THE BEST THAT I COULD EVER WANT IN MY LIFE...RICK MAKES ME SO HAPPY AND LOVES ME SO MUCH....JUST LOOKING AT HIM LAYING ON COUCH WATCHING TV RIGHT NOW MY HEART SWELLS WITH PRIDE AND HOPE FOR THE FUTURE WITH HIM!!!!

HUGS

i'm sorry that the job didn't pan out- i am happy for you being happy ..i want you to be happy .i would take your breyer's and plates and etc and your clothes and be done- go- while you can and get yourself settled in ohio- a job will come.... and i wouldn't spend two weeks in that house with rick...but--that is jmho--and what do i know anyhow...sorry if this doesn't sit well with you but it doesn't "look" good to anyone who knows that your husband is in the hospital now etc...i know-we shouldn't worry what ppl think--but i hope it doesn't come back to eat your butt if lisa gets a whiff of it-- i am afraid judy that you are not doing things to help your situation in getting what you do deserve out of the house-and by that i mean gary should have to either sell it or refinance it to buy you out- 50/50.and with rick there for two weeks it can be misconstrued by the lawyers and legal aid etc..... again-jmho--i will now go back to my pasture.....and i won't express my opinions anymore. do you realize taht gary's atty and/or legal aid could be reading these boards? i guess i am simply afraid for you judy cuz you put way too much out here for the world-and you don't respond well when ppl try to caution you confidentially...i am sorry .....

THANKS MARGO...BUT I ALREADY CHECKED WITH MY LAWYER AND ITS PERFECTLY OK FOR ME TO HAVE RICK HERE IF I WANT HIM TO BE HERE.....NO NEED TO WORRY ABOUT ME....PLUS FROM WHAT I ALREADY HEARD FROM GARYS LAWYER I AM NOT GETTING MUCH OF ANYTHING THAT I WANT SO NO NEED TO WORRY THERE EITHER....I AM READY TO MOVE OUT IN A MINUTE...JUST NEED A UHAUL AND I AM ON MY WAY....THOSE THAT KNOW GARY KNOW HE IS IN A GROUP HOME WHERE HE NEEDS TO BE AND THEY ARE ALSO SUPPORTING ME IN MY NEW LIFE....THEY ARE HAPPY FOR ME 100%...THEY KNOW HOW BAD GARY WAS BEFORE HE GOT "SICK" SO ITS A BLESSING THAT PEOPLE KNEW HIM LIKE HE WAS BEFORE HE GOT SICK AND ARE HAPPY I AM FINALY GOING TO BE FREE OF HIM AND HIS SARCASTIC WAYS...ALWAYS PUTTING ME AND OTHERS DOWN I GUESS ITS CALLED VERBAL ABUSE....TOLD GARY MILLIONS OF TIMES HIS WORDS HURT MORE THAN DON'S (1ST HUSBAND) FISTS EVER DID...DID THAT STOP HIM FROM BEING SO NASTY TO ME??? HELL NO!!!!!!!! WHY DID I STICK IT OUT ALL THESE YEARS??? LORD ONLY KNOWS....BUT I AM NOW FREE OF HIM AND HAVE A WONDERFUL GUY THAT TREATS ME VERY GOOD AND NEVER SAYS A MEAN WORD TO ME EVER!!!!!!!!!! BECAUSE OF GARY I LOST CONTACT WITH MY KIDS TOO!!!!!!!!! WAS HOPING THAT SINCE HE IS NO LONGER WITH ME I JUST MIGHT HEAR FROM MY KIDS ON MOTHERS DAY...NOPE STILL NOTHING FROM THEM AT ALL....SIGHS........SOMEDAY MAYBE....WHO KNOWS...

BUT THANKYOU FOR YOU HONEST OPINION

judy; i am very much familiar with verbal abuse having been raised by an alcoholic  and from both my 1st and 2nd husbands... i am glad that everything is working out for you  and i just was concerned.