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ok- it seems that judy g has had her feelings hurt-and so she is playing games now and getting other ppl to tell her secret pal she heard from them?? how childish...and shame on anyone who caters to her for this..... she is a grown up--let her tell her own secret pal ... so--i'll confess...she has run away and taken her toys because of something that i said to her --quietly- off the boards --in an effort to try to keep her from being banned --- here's the story... someone from our boards contacted me privately  a few days ago worried that judy's jokes were a bit risque and she could possibly be banned- we do get monitored - and right now our resident over 50 OH staff member is off dealing with the loss of a loved one... so--i very quietly , discreetly pm'd judy saying that someone was concerned- her answer to me was quite flip  and i just let it go figuring she did not understand that it was  a kind warning-not a threat-- i did not report her to any monitors i just figured that ppl want to read her jokes so be it...not my call--why did i stick my nose in anyways??? darned if i know..... so now i see she has taken her toys and gone home... i guess i'm sposed to say i am sorry--well- i am sorry that someone trusted me enough to think that i could say something to judy in kindness.... nuff said--blast away...............

I forget the guys name that use to say that all the time, he had a radio show, think his first name was Walter, but right now I'm not sure of anything. You know Margo, over the years that you and I have been on these boards we have seen lots of people come and go, some go in a huff and some just disappear. They have their own reasons. There was a time when i myself was  going to leave if you remember because of the insults I was getting and the ruckus that was going on. I just backed away for awhile and took a break, sometimes that is what we need is just a break. As far as the banning and such, yes that happens. I've seen people banned from OH for less than Judy's jokes, she was getting on the edge with them....I'm surprised that nothing had been said earlier. So, you were the messenger and tried to send a polite hint that they should be toned down some. It's too bad that she is not going to join us anymore, I like Judy and am concerned about her and her health. I hope this is just a break and she comes back. Not to worry Margo, I have seen this happen so many times on other boards. It's just a shame it had to happen here with the Mature people. The main board is the one with all the drama's....not here.... Hope things are well for you, hope your job search is going well...I know mine isn't...it sux big time.