My 2 month old grandson ..Nolan he brightens my day.
"Be kinder than necessary, for everyone is fighting some kind of battle"
I am an optimist....I believe this tiny generation will work miracles.
Thanks for sharing, love.
Aloha nui loa,
Maui Karen
What a lovely thought....from a lovely woman. I sincerly hope they will, but like you I'm sure we do know that parents do not intentionally screw up their children....but I see it happening right now with some of my daughter's friends......
One said the other day...."I really need to work on teaching "johnny" more compassion"...and I thought to myself....I don't think you can teach compassion....I think it needs to be learned from his parent's example....but I didn't say anything as I knew it would not make a difference....they are obsessed with possessions and a perfect home and the children are just decorations.
Another one said to Kathleen....."I am going to talk to "johnny's" teacher...I think the other kids are not treating him nice, and he doesn't have a real friend" Kathleen is always gentle..so she said "well I think it is hard when a Mom works full time....I know that Julie and I practically stand on our heads sometimes arranging play dates for James and Gavin.....but we both think this is a lifetime friendship and at 5 years old they can't do it for themselves....and I don't really think it is a teacher's job to find friends for our children. [Kathleen has a degree in Elementary Education as does this friend] they really have enough on their plates" Her friend said "well I am home everyday at 3:00" and Kathleen said "but not really, you always have many many errands to run" . This Mother also does not like to cook or mess up her kitchen so they also eat take-out food most everyday.
I believe they love their chlildren very much, but the examples they set for them are not always the best.....it is a lot of love and personal sacrafice to raise a child, and that old adage is so true for me.."Children Learn What They live"
You children obviously had a great example in you, sweet, wise and so compassionate.
Love, Marti
"Be kinder than necessary, for everyone is fighting some kind of battle"