WELL THE SH*T HAS FINALLY HIT THE FAN HERE....

I THINK I CAN EVEN CHANGE THE LOCKS MYSELF....AND ALSO BRIAN JUST MIGHT DO IT FOR ME ALSO IF I ASKED HIM TO...BRIAN IS A CO-WORKER LOL

YOU ARE RIGHT...I WON'T LET HER TAKE ANYTHING I DON'T WANT HER TO HAVE....AND I WILL KEEP MY BIG MOUTH SHUT....

HUGS

Judy, maybe I misunderstood a while back, but wasn't part of your husband's problems his mental faculties and would that have been the reason you had power of attorney to begin with?  Well, how could his daughter get power of attorney from him if his faculties are impaired.  First, don't you have to be of sound mind to give it?  I would find out how she managed to pull this off.  If it was secret, then he would have signed anything she told him to sign and then got it notarized.  Maybe even the notary was her friend and with her at the time.  If this is the case, the POA may not even be valid.  I would certainly make that be a big issue when you see your attorney.  If the POA is not valid, then everything else is moot at this point.  As for the "divorce," I agree with others, that could be just a rumor.  But at any point, you have not initiated anything yet, so you are still legally married to him.  Hang in there.

I DON'T KNOW HOW THEY DID IT EITHER WITH HIM NOT IN HIS RIGHT MIND.....I HAVE TO WORK TOMORROW 8-2 THEN I AM GOING TO CALL MY LAWYER WHEN I GET HOME SEE WHAT HE HAS TO SAY ABOUT ALL THIS!!!! I AM SURE THE THERAPIST HAD ALOT TO DO WITH IT....SO MUCH FOR TRUSTING HER TO HELP ME WITH HIM.....

THANKS FOR EVERYTHING THO....HUGS

Judy I am a Notary and we do not judge the competence of someone....we only notarize that it is them signing the paper in my prescence........You should talk to an attorney BEFORE you ever deal with his daughter.....and if she will benefit from any proceeds from him.....you should definitely talk to an attorney...... I also would NOT count on any money from a lawsuit for another year or so.....they string things out as much as possible.....My mother was walking down a street and someone's dog got loose and ran out and chased her and bit her leg so badly that part of the back of her leg was gone......she only received $15,000 for her injury and it was a permanent injury...and the lawyer took $5,000......my brother had been so upset he insisted on suing the owner. Hugs, Marti

Hi Judy!   It's been a really long time since I've been on here!  Evidentally I missed a lot!  I did know you've been having problems with the hubby and trying to get him help but holy crap,,,,,it really did hit the fan didn't it?  Good luck with the step daughter AND your lawyer!   Cover your cheeks darlin!  I'll be sure to check back to see what's happening! Love ya! Judy

HI JUDY!!!! GOOD TO SEE YOU HERE AGAIN!!!! THANKS SO MUCH FOR YOUR SUPPORT....WILL KEEP YOU POSTED....

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Judy, I think it is absolutely deplorable what your step daughter has done!  I know each state has different laws, but I really cannot see how she was able to obtain a POA especially considering Gary's state of mind at this time.   I know things eventually are going to break for you and you will be able to start enjoing your life to the fullest.   Just   Terri

GLAD THAT WE ARE ON THE SAME PAGE TERRI....I WILL NEVER EVER FORGIVE HER FOR DOING THIS TO ME....AND I AM NOT SURE HOW THIS ALL HAPPENED BUT I KNOW THE THERAPIST HAD A HUGE HAND IN IT!!!!!!!!!!  I WILL BE CALLINGMY LAWYER TOMORROW AND SEE WHAT HE SAYS I SHOULD DO....

HUGS

oh gosh--i so want to be supportive-however-i so want to say i told you so about talking about ohio-on here or anywhere- do you think his daughter reads any of this???it's so easy -anyone can get online and see what's here... why do you think i don't say much of anything anymore that can be read by hubby or anyone else....???? hmmmmmmmmmm judy-the others have all givengood advice- just be careful--you are his wife and you are entitled to so much- and any rumors about moving to ohio- well we can all dream--and plan for our futures-doesn't mean you did anything about it..* i would NOT wait til tues about this judy....and i would def question the validity of the POA...... and i am sending hugs and prayers for you....

I KNOW WHAT YOU SAID AN I APPRECIATE IT MARGO....NO SHE DOESN'T READ THIS AND IF SHE DOES I DON'T CARE....SO I AM LOOKING FOR WORK IN OHIO...BIG DEAL.... =)  I AM CALLING MY LAWYER TOMORROW AND LET HIM KNOW WHATS HAPPENING HERE....

THANKS FOR THE PRAYERS AND HUGS....

HUGS