one step sooner to surgery

In the past, I had a significant weight loss through diet (eating habits, no starvation) and regular workouts. I got a LOT of reaction from a lot of different people. Sadly, those closest to me judged and thought I was starving myself. Others, were negative saying it was temporary because that kind of loss "just can't be healthy". And my ex, would bring me chocolate bars or eat my lunches that I prepared for myself religiously. People that snobbed me before due to my size, suddenly acted like my new best friends.

I hated it and I was miserable. No one tells you what to expect when you lose a lot of weight. Sure, there are positives. But there are also things that are a bit less positive and they must be managed.

Going into this now, I am so much more aware and I'm ready. I think I know what will happen, but this will be different. Loss will be more significant, and permanent (I'll do what I can to ensure that).

I would say knowing why you are doing what you're doing, being confident in your decision and your choice will help. If you know, in your heart of hearts, why you have chosen this route, it won't matter what others will say. And they will have a lot to say. Let them have their opinions, they are entitled to them.

Also, remember those persons or groups are not as aware and knowledgeable about weight loss, surgery, expectations, and what is involved as you are or will be. It doesn't mean you have to teach them all or explain, that's on them if they want to understand or not. But, remember that once upon a time, we too thought the same as they think. Remember that those were the "excuses" that we gave ourselves also. Now, you are evolving into an even better you. Enjoy it and don't let the old "demons" drag you down.