WHAT I AM NOT GOING TO MISS......

missmac67
on 7/31/17 4:14 am
RNY on 08/01/17

HI it's me MJ! My surgery is tomorrow - Yes, I can't wait and Yes, I am nervous....

I was thinking yesterday about the things I am not going to miss about being obese.

  1. Being Obese. How did that happen?
  2. Heaving myself out of my Dodge Challenger
  3. Using the handicap stall in the restroom
  4. Paying more for a basic T or paying more for any Plus size clothes than regular
  5. Additionelle and Penningtons - don't get me wrong they were nice folks
  6. Scavenging through the racks at Old Navy to find the 2XL to try in on and find out it doesn't fit!
  7. Feeling like I am taking up too much space on the transit
  8. Being the biggest girl at the office
  9. Being offered work related apparel and them not ordering me the right size
  10. Starting a diet EVERY Monday morning.
  11. My BF asking me what I'm eating/not eating today - depending on what diet I'm on
  12. Not being able to breath
  13. Being squishy - baby's are squishy not 50 yr old women
  14. Not being able to bend down to tie my shoes
  15. My thighs rubbing together
  16. Wearing black stretch pants with over sized shirts
  17. Shopping for clothes in general
  18. Wanting to eat the whole fridge after work or a whole food court at lunch
  19. Eating until I feel sick
  20. Food/alcohol hangovers

Well that is all I can think of for now - feel free to add on!!!

Please keep me in your prayers or wish me luck - I'm really going to do this!

Together we get BETTER

Candi P.
on 7/31/17 4:45 am - Mississauga, Canada
RNY on 08/01/17

Hey MJ sounds about right!! Those are some awesome things not to miss! See you at TWH :)

Orientation: June 29th, 2016, Social Work Assessment: September 22nd, 2016, Nursing: October 17th, 2016, Nutrition: November 9, 2016, Psychology: January 10, 2017, Dietitian: January 12, 2017, Got Approval from Rounds: Jan 19, 2017, Meeting Surgeon: March 17, 2017, Pre-Op Appt: July 11, 2017, RNY Surgery Booked: Aug 1st, 2017 @ TWH

HW: 372.1, SW: 352.6, M1: 27.2, M2: 8, M3: 10.3 M4:

LeslieCL
on 7/31/17 4:52 am

Thank you so much for this. It is so true, I'm going to add a few extras of mine...

21. Sweating as soon as the temperature passes 19

22. Rashes (enough said)

23. Being embarrassed to eat in public in case some says something to me

24. Worrying that a chair won't hold me

25. Having strangers offer food purchase critique in the check out lane

26. Having strangers yell "Fat F-ing !!!ch" out their car window as I'm walking along

27. Being ignored

28. Being overly cheerful to counter being ignored

(deactivated member)
on 7/31/17 5:36 am - Brampton , Canada
RNY on 09/12/17

29. Not being able to paint my own toenails/shave the backs of my thighs!

30. Being uncomfortable when going to the spa for any kind of services because of my weight

31. Passing on awesome events because I'm scared what others will think

missmac67
on 7/31/17 6:55 am
RNY on 08/01/17

Those are really good ones, we shouldn't have had to endure. Much love and respect.

oneatatime
on 7/31/17 6:01 am
RNY on 09/01/17

Yay @ tomorrow! It will go smoothly. I will keep you in my prayers for sure. Please be sure to check in when you can.

32. Needing a seatbelt extender on a flight

33. Wearing flat shoes

34. Sitting on the sidelines

35. Tiring easily

Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. Choose happy.

Opti -10 / M1 -25.5 / M2 -10 / M3 -14.5 / M4 -13 / M5 -10 / M6 -5.5 / M7 -9.5 / M8 -13.5 / M9 -0.5 / M10 -2.5 / M11 -2.5 / M12 +2 / M13 -5.5

Century Club and Onederland in month 7!!

SaraSmiles
on 7/31/17 6:40 am

These are all so good, thanks for sharing! ?

leeann73
on 7/31/17 6:57 am

awesome list, here are some of the things I don't miss in addition to all of the above

  • worried I am going to have a heart attack
  • hating my reflection in the mirror
  • blaming every situation on "fat"
  • being too tired to play with my kids
  • not liking summer because of the heat
  • not liking winter because of the bulk of winter clothes
  • wearing black all the time

referral: early June 2016; surgery Feb 21, 2017

Beachgirl77
on 7/31/17 12:59 pm

Good luck tomorrow! Wishing you a speedy recovery !

littlewingx
on 7/31/17 1:19 pm

This is an awesome list. I'll be thinking of you tomorrow. On to good health!!!

Newbie looking for some support! Hi

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Referred: January 2017 | First group session at The Ottawa Hospital (WMC): March 27 2017 | Intake appointment: April 27 2017 | Behaviourist & Dietician appointments: July 6 2017 | Second group session: July 25 2017 | Meet the surgeon (Dr. Neville) : July 26 2017 | Surgery date: ???

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