Wedding ring - to wear or not to wear???
Going in the opposite direction, when I was pregnant with my 2nd, weight gain and bloat from pregnancy put me out of my wedding rings. I opted for an inexpensive wedding band to tide me over. Now I've gone to the other extreme and my rings sit in my jewellery box. I wear my anniversary band (too big, spins around my finger), and another ring that fits well to hold it in place. Same with the rings on my right hand. I just found a smaller ring to hold them on my finger. Like you, I have an emotional need to wear my love on my left finger. It's directly connected to my heart.
Had RNY surgery July 22/11, St. Joe's Hamilton, with the awesome Dr. Scott Gmora. Had abdominoplasty August 2/13, Scarborough, with equally awesome Dr. Michael Kreidstein.
Have you tried to find the little plastic cover that sits on the back of your rings to make it smaller--very inexpensive--check with a jewelery store. For a quick fix, if you are going out, put a little scotch tape around the back.
I haven't been able to wear my rings in about 4 years, I can't wait until I have lost enough to put then on again!!
I haven't been able to wear my rings in about 4 years, I can't wait until I have lost enough to put then on again!!
I stopped wearing my wedding rings about 6 months ago. But I felt the need to have something on my finger too. To my utter delight, I found some very pretty fake stuff at Shoppers Drug Mart. I was paying for my mascara when I noticed the display case. They're all 'white gold' with zirconias and range from 19.99 to 29.99. Some of them are actually wedding sets with engagement ring & band. I bought a set initially and then bought a larger band with 3 rows of stones. They're so pretty and because they're cheap, I don't mind that they don't last (the coating starts to fade after about 3 months) and I've made it into a little milestone reward....I'm 5lbs away from my next new ring :)
The first set I got fooled the girls at work. I told them my hubby wanted me to have new rings to celebrate the new me...lol I figure I'm about another 3 months away from getting my real ones sized but I'm loving these little treasures in the meantime.
The first set I got fooled the girls at work. I told them my hubby wanted me to have new rings to celebrate the new me...lol I figure I'm about another 3 months away from getting my real ones sized but I'm loving these little treasures in the meantime.
Other suggestions for inexpensive man-repellents for ring-less phase:
- Baby on board sign in rear window of car and/or
- Baby carrier in back seat (or folded up stroller in hatchback will do)
- Use a diaper bag instead of purse to carry stuff around
- Indigo Girls concert shirt
- Lorena Bobbitt for Prez pin, clearly visible
- Etc. Etc.
- Baby on board sign in rear window of car and/or
- Baby carrier in back seat (or folded up stroller in hatchback will do)
- Use a diaper bag instead of purse to carry stuff around
- Indigo Girls concert shirt
- Lorena Bobbitt for Prez pin, clearly visible
- Etc. Etc.