Trying to figure out where I am- and waving hello

JenH1969
on 9/27/11 11:02 pm - Brighton, Ontario, Canada
Thanks so much for your words of wisdom Mike.  You have brought up a lot of great points.  I have to find other ways to help myself feel better, without food.  I have to make food less important again.  I am in councelling and will talk to her about this at our session today.

 SMILES~JEN 
SW-296 lbs,CW-240 lbs,GW-150 lbs
               ~Don't let what you want NOW affect what you want MOST~
                                           WE CAN DO THIS!!
             

clemaruth
on 9/27/11 5:53 am - Belleville, Canada
Hi Jen.  I can understand the stress of raising/caring for your children.  I don't have children but I support youth and Adults with high needs and disablities. Do you have any respite support??

I am willing to offer to do some respite with your family if you need or would like. 

You ARE NOT A FAILURE!!!  you have come for support and I am sure lots of encouraging words of support will be passed on to you.

Just keep ypur head up and don't be afraid to ask for help!!

You can message me here or I can give you my number if you would like some support or time to yourself and hubby!!

Shelly


            
JenH1969
on 9/27/11 11:06 pm - Brighton, Ontario, Canada
Hi Shelly- thanks and that is very sweet of you.  We do get some respite but funding is very limited.  I need to try to find some time for myself and dh and I - other than appointments.  Hopefully we can meet one day soon.

 SMILES~JEN 
SW-296 lbs,CW-240 lbs,GW-150 lbs
               ~Don't let what you want NOW affect what you want MOST~
                                           WE CAN DO THIS!!
             

nofries4you
on 9/27/11 6:45 am - Canada
hey jen

glad to see you posting again............i am right along with you..........i feel like you are posting my story here..........a lot of it anyway...........

take care hun

Sue

                        
JenH1969
on 9/27/11 11:06 pm - Brighton, Ontario, Canada
Oh Sue- let's join forces. We can do this dammit!!!

 SMILES~JEN 
SW-296 lbs,CW-240 lbs,GW-150 lbs
               ~Don't let what you want NOW affect what you want MOST~
                                           WE CAN DO THIS!!
             

Eileen C.
on 9/27/11 8:55 am - Cornwall, Canada
Hi Jen 

WOW you have lost 100 pounds, that is still a great feat, you should be proud of that fact

We are all going through the same as you are, do not be so hard on yourself

You have taken the first step, we are here for you, sometimes we need to talk out our feelings and by

doing so we can recognize what we are doing right and wrong etc

Make time for yourself, whatever you need, whether it is one hour a week, month, etc.  You owe it to

yourself and your family

We have all been in your shoes, in one way or another

Take a deep breathe and breath, you are on the right track

Remember "you can do it"

Take care, sending healing vibes and warm hugs your way

Eileen
            my angel is Lisa48                                        
JenH1969
on 9/27/11 11:08 pm - Brighton, Ontario, Canada
Thanks so much Eileen- you loof fab btw.  You are right about talking about and recognizing feelings- I am often amazed at the difference in my self awareness now.

 SMILES~JEN 
SW-296 lbs,CW-240 lbs,GW-150 lbs
               ~Don't let what you want NOW affect what you want MOST~
                                           WE CAN DO THIS!!
             

Eileen C.
on 9/28/11 2:39 am - Cornwall, Canada


Keep up the great job, you are doing fantastic, again, don't be so hard on yourself

Take care


Eileen
            my angel is Lisa48                                        
charm64
on 9/27/11 9:06 am - Cambridge, Canada
Hello Jen,

So nice to see you posting.  I am so sorry you are under so much stress.
You are not a failure at all.
You need some support and we are all here to listen.
HUGS

Char

Char
Dr. Reed
VSG May 24/2011

JenH1969
on 9/27/11 11:22 pm - Brighton, Ontario, Canada
Thank-you Char- I need those hugs.

 SMILES~JEN 
SW-296 lbs,CW-240 lbs,GW-150 lbs
               ~Don't let what you want NOW affect what you want MOST~
                                           WE CAN DO THIS!!
             

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