husband cheating on me

Ok yes you read the title right I am sitting here at work attempting to process the fact that it is 8:30 am and at 7:55 I was told that my husband is cheating on me.  Well I guess time for some additional quick weight loss here goes 180 lbs gone.  BREATHE ok well will keep you all posted I think I just needed to write that down.  Kinda in a fog here.  Well focus and get through day is my plan.

Robin

Oh man! I'm sorry this happened to you. Did you find out from him directly or via someone else? Do you have kids?

someone else, not direct but he has been AWOL for 2 days and then was told by someone.  Yes I have 2 kids 9 and 4 and we were separated for some time last year only trying again since February. 

Oh mn... What a cowardly way to go about it.

Strength to you and your little ones.

I am so sorry! 

Char

hugs. You deserve better than that. Hug hug hug hug hug..

what an ass.

That really sucks Robin.  I hope that you are able to keep it together and get through the day. Listen to your heart, and do whatever is best for you and your children. Remember the saying what doesn't kill us makes us stronger. You have tons of support from your OH family just talk to us whenever you need us. Take good care. Big hugs.  Muriel

wow that is certainly not the morning news you expect. Stay healthy. Is the source reliable? The @ day awol would be enough!

So sorry to hear this.

*hugs*

I am very sorry that you are going through this. Going through a major stress during your WLS journey is pretty ****ty and not condusive (sp?) to optimum health.

Everyone tells me that I am so strong and I will get through this...whenever huge stressors come into my life. Sometimes I hate that and just want to tell them to shush because I just want to break down and be empty for a little while. I dont WANT to be the strong one and have to still function and look after everything while the world falls apart around me.

That's what I have found this board to be: the support you need to get through the day while the world comes crashing down around you.

Everyone here is here to support you.

You will survive. It just won't feel like it for a while.

*hugs*