Trying a new coping strategy
VSG on 05/11/12
Oh Mike, I'm so sorry to hear that. What a terribly hard decision to have to make. I had to do that for my 14 year old Golden Retriever, Amber, 3 years ago, due to cancer & I think it was the hardest thing I've ever done. Please accept my heartfelt condolences on losing your loving friend. Good for you for being able to recognize the urge to deal with the pain by eating and being able to put the brakes on. When I put my sweet girl down I had been smoke-free for 9 months - it was the only time after quitting that I almost gave in and smoked because of the emotional pain. I'll be thinking of you and your furbaby tomorrow Mike & sending you my strength. I'm so sorry.
Deb
Deb
I am truly sorry. Tomorrow will be such a hard day. Enjoy tonight with her and just hold her. Allow yourself to feel that is so important. Nothing wrong with crying. They become so much of the family. I still miss my cat that I had to put down even though we have a new one. I know I will hate the day that I have to put my dog down. I will be thinking of you tomorrow. You are in my thoughts.
RNY on 03/16/12
So sorry to hear about your dog. One of my Mals dies 3 weeks ago. It is hard but you will remember the good 13 years and take comfort that you can be there for him and ensure his passing is comfortable. Hold on to your wife and never feel that you cannot share sorrow.
Prayers are with you tomorrow. Take care Leslie
Prayers are with you tomorrow. Take care Leslie
TBIYTC
on 6/23/11 3:25 pm - Ontario, Canada
on 6/23/11 3:25 pm - Ontario, Canada
VSG on 02/29/12
Oh Mike, I understand all too well. I had to put down my beloved cat a few years ago and I still miss her. She thought she was a dog - followed me everywhere. Would even fetch. She put me to bed each night. I have her picture right beside me now. She saw me through a divorce, and waited till I was happily maried to a wonderful man. Your beloved dog waited to see you through your surgery and recovery.
I think it is important to find some way to memorialize our loved ones. I buried her in the back yard, planted a lilac tree behind her, and put a favourite rock over her grave. Another idea might be to write a letter of how much she meant to you, attach it to a helium balloon, and let it go at a park or spot that meant something to you.
I'm so sorry.
I think it is important to find some way to memorialize our loved ones. I buried her in the back yard, planted a lilac tree behind her, and put a favourite rock over her grave. Another idea might be to write a letter of how much she meant to you, attach it to a helium balloon, and let it go at a park or spot that meant something to you.
I'm so sorry.
TBIYTC-The Best Is Yet To Come Referral-Mar 2011 Surgery Feb 29th, 2012