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MaryMargaretG
on 3/7/10 8:40 pm - Medina, OH
Topic: RE: So scared now that I got my date...will it pass?
Hi Robin,

I was so excited before I got my date.  When I got the date I was afraid too. My mind went through a lot of things.  Remember you are moving in the right direction for a goal you have wanted for a long time.  It is natural to be scared.  Talk to your doctor, he/she will give you some sound advice.


Peace
Mary

I am on my way.  What a ride it has been.

http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/Sharing


 
MrzPrecious Que
on 3/7/10 5:01 pm - OH
Topic: RE: DR. LANE
well it seems like u are moving along pretty quickly, I hope they do me the same way.   I refuse to give up, i have come to far to turn around.
babs71958
on 3/7/10 11:40 am - Brunswick,OH/Ruskin/FL, FL
Topic: RE: advice needed on what to eat to lose
Hi Becca,
You need to go back to basics.  Protein firs****er, no more than 10gms carbs per meal, and exercise.  And stay away from the scale.

Barb 

Desperately Seeking a revision to a DS.
Be  careful of the toes you step on today because they will be attached to the ass you have to kiss tomorrow.
          

(deactivated member)
on 3/7/10 9:36 am
Topic: RE: DR. LANE
Jamaicanbaby good choice!!!!  You will love Dr. White and his staff.  To others, give Dr. White a try...I'm sure you will be pleased.  He came highly recommended by 2 people who were patients of his; thus I chose him....nothing like the power of a personal testimony.
maryaw1007
on 3/7/10 3:02 am
Topic: not sure what to do now! (kinda long)
Hi, I had my psych. eval, consult with surgeon, and paid my program fee.  My patient rep. said my psych eval. needs to be approved by the centers psychologist. The psychologist took 3 weeks to call me about clarification on my psych. eval. She sent me consent forms  that needed signed so she could speak to 2 of my doctors.  I signed them and sent them back asap.  It has now been 4 more weeks and she still hasn't contacted those drs. she needs to speak with.  So it has  now been 7 weeks since my initial consult and nothing else can happen until she ok's me.  My patient rep. says she can't do anything about it and has many excuses as to why the psychologist is taking so long.  I am so frustrated!!  Any suggestions about what I should do, if anything?  I feel like the psychologist is taking her good ole' time and who knows how much longer she is gonna take.  Thanks, Mary Ann
Jamaicanbaby
on 3/7/10 2:35 am - Toledo, OH
Topic: RE: DR. LANE
Hey dont give up, I was very upset and confused not knowing what to do. I cant wait for him to get set up somewhere else, I found Dr. White @ The Toledo Hospital had everything transfered and so far so good I meet the dietician on March 15 and  this new Dr. on March 16 then I will get my date, and his assistant said she's gonna try to let me get the same surgery date that I already had with Dr. Lane. Let me know if you want their number they were very nice and understanding. You are so close like me, I dont think you will have to start over, they should be able to pick up where you stopped ok bye
Valerie G.
on 3/7/10 1:21 am - Northwest Mountains, GA
Topic: RE: Weight loss
Don't expect any miracles with skin shrinking.  I got a little shrinkage the second  year, but nothing to write home about.

Valerie
DS 2005

There is room on this earth for all of God's creatures..
next to the mashed potatoes

Cicerogirl, The PhD
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on 3/6/10 10:18 pm - OH
Topic: RE: So scared now that I got my date...will it pass?
I was the opposite... I was nothing but EXCITED ... UNTIL the morning of surgery, that is.  THEN I was TERRIFIED.  Unfortunately, the nurse who was prepping me didn;t even have the IV in by the time the surgeon poked her head into the room and as soon as I saw the surgeon all the tears that I had been fighting back came bursting out!  I told her that they had not given me the "courage medicine" she promised they would (I just knew I would be scared right before surgery).  She left the room and (literally, 30 seconds later) the nurse came back in, put the IV in, and then the surgeon re-appeared to make sure that I still wanted to go ahead with the surgery (before they gave me any meds!).  I reassured her that I absoultely did, but that I was just really scared.  She hugged me and then gave me something in the IV and I was fine.

I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor and the people I actually worry about are those who are NOT scraed at some point before the surgery.  In many cases (nbut not all, of course) it indicates that they don;t have a good grasp of the seriousness of the surgery and the necessary life changes that need to be made after surgery (or that may come as a result of surgery).

One of the things some people find helpful is to focus on imagining yourself as thin and healthy rather than focusing on the surgery itself.  Imagine yourself with high energy, doing something you are really looking forward to doing once you lose the weight... something the weight has kept you from doing... running, riding rollercoasters, climbing a mountain, or just playing tag with kids... whatever it is that you are looking forward to doing.

You'll be fine.

Lora

14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained

You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.

robinwhitehair
on 3/6/10 2:53 pm
Topic: RE: So scared now that I got my date...will it pass?
THANK YOU FOR RESPONDING.  I WILL KEEP IN MIND ALL POINTS.  JUST I HAVE TO LEARN TO BREATHE, INHALE-EXHALE...
SINCERELY,
ROBIN
MrzPrecious Que
on 3/6/10 1:37 pm, edited 3/6/10 1:39 pm - OH
Topic: RE: DR. LANE
Dr lane resigned because they wouldnt give him what he needed to run his business safely . thats what� I was told in an email from his assistant amy.� She will be going to Toledo Hospital in April and trying to see if darcy can get hired there as well.� She also said that Dr lane may be at Toledo Hospital as well but It would take a while. I was just waiting for my approval and surgery date, I am so heart broken that I may have to start over.
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