How did your family handle the surgery?

I was just wondering how did your close family handle it when you had your surgery? In my case, I am 6 months out, and my husband and sons are still learning to handle the fact that I have changed my life and theirs is changing right along with me. In the beginning they were afraid that I would die and we talked about this a lot. Now they are trying to adjust to the fact that I have so much energy that I want to be on the go all of the time. I has been an interesting year so far. How are the rest of you helping your family adjust to the surgery and the lifestlye changes that come along with it?

Hi, I am only 3 months out but my family has been great so far. When my youngest left to go back to college i was down about 25 lbs. SInce then i have dropped from a 26/28 pants to a 20 and from a 3x shirt to an x-large. When i saw my sone two weeks ago..he just stared at me.....He said wow, a new body, new hair cut and a new hair color....what else are ya going to do mom...ya look great.....Well, needless to say, i was thrilled to death. The hubby and daughter live with me and are familar with what i go through every day. My youngest is just thrilled that mom is finally getting healthy..........As for my mom, she could care less what i do, she never has cared about what i did. My few close freinds are very supportive also.....The most changed person is me though, i just cannot believe the difference in my lifestyle now....eating healthy, more energy, etc.... this is the best thing i did for myself and my family........

Patty, I agree. It is a miracle the changes that the surgery can bring to your life. We sound a lot alike. How much weight have you lost in the 3 months since your surgery. I have lost 107 pounds so far and I am 6 months out. I feel wonderful. Keep up the great work.

Hi Deb, I had my surgery done in Pa. It was closer to me and in network, so i only ended up paying a grand total of 60.00 out of pocket. But i have lost 55 pounds to date. Could have been more but i hit a plateau that lasted 2 weeks and didn't budge an inch...lol....anyhow, the scales are moving again and i am happy. I consider myself very fortunate to have had this surgery. It gave me a new lease on life....and i forgot to add this in my last post......I never mind entering the room last now and everyone looking at me.....Before i knew they were just looking at my fat body, now i carry myself with alot more confidence....i love it..........