How are you doing?

Can I get a run down of RNYers...I am looking for successful RNYers who are a long way out from their surgery date and still successful, I have one friend who will be 27 months out and is doing GREAT but I hear soooo many people talk about RNYers and how they all gain their weight back and it's such a horrible surgery and stuff...I am looking to hear some good things for once...it seems like everyone just downs the RNY, I am planning on having it and think I will do great with it, I don't plan to cheat and I plan to work out frequently...any successful RNYers out there? ~Tema~

there are tons of rnyers out there I think the thing to keep in mind is this is a tool you learn how to use it properly or else you will not get the full benifits of this tool you may want to research more into this type of surgery and feel confident in your choice I know if I had a question as to rather or not this is what I want I would not do it until I found what I was looking for I have heard alot of bad stories I think some people are just scared of anything different some people just do not grasp the ideal that we have no choice we have tried it all and failed LOOK FOR A GOOD PROGRAM THAT HAS A SUPPORTIVE AFTER CARE I DO THINK IT IS A KEY TO SUCCESS GOOD LUCK