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(deactivated member)
on 4/27/14 10:58 am
VSG on 03/04/14 with
Topic: RE: Can't find rants and raves

That wasn't me, but it's still a small world. I went with Dr. Aranow because my sister used him for her sleeve a couple of years ago, and she just raves about him. I ageee completely. She's your neighbor, practically, in Manchester. I'm up in Greenfield MA, but it worked out since I could stay with her for a couple of days after surgery. 

Teri Turner
on 4/27/14 10:39 am - WA
Topic: RE: Sockpuppeting - Lame or Cool?

I agree, Katie.   I haven't seen it here in that sense - but then I spend little time here after those early marathon days when my aim was learning. And learning. And bookmarking the best! 

Over the past day, I could have sworn I saw a couple of meat-puppets.   I can't be certain, of course, but, like it does for Judge Judy, it raised the hairs on the back of my neck. 

I would hope that mostly it's done in the way I've nearly always seem in other support groups - as a lighthearted way to have fun while entertaining others. 

With this board, Off Topic, I've enjoyed the playfulness displayed here - and I wouldn't mind a bit for someone to assume a silly irreverent user name & be a clown for us. 

Now, you can't see it now, but the surest way to reach goal & maintain is to be here as close to daily as possible.   You go from being a student, search for answers, to practicing what you've learned, to then (after several years of successful maintenance) being able to best help with the accumulated wisdom accrued over the years of walking the walk & watching those who also walk the walk - as well as learning to recognize (from the sheer number you see over tine) the really serious signs of the beginning of serious signs of impending failure.  

And how do they know the signs?   Because of the years of seeking to help others.   That's when tough love has a strong needed role... A loud snapping of the fingers - sometimes even the clash of cymbals,  

Where I see things get rough is when 12 people show up to point out the dangers of where they are headed.   Me?   Heck, I'm a wuss - I'd duck & run.    

But that's me. 

Teri 

 

 

AnneGG
on 4/27/14 10:25 am
Topic: RE: Sockpuppeting - Lame or Cool?

Funny, I just thought a sock puppet was just that- used to play with them as a kid. Thanks for the education!

Me, I couldn't be bothered, besides which I like me as I am and have no problem being straight. I'm one of those people who are in old time computer lingo WYSIWYG- what you see is what you get.

It is always amazing to me that someone would like to be so sneaky and underhanded and get off on that. But I'm not surprised.

"What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the master calls the butterfly." Richard Bach

"Support fosters your growth. If you are getting enough of the right support, you will experience a major transformation in yourself. You will discover a sense of empowerment and peace you have never before experienced. You will come to believe you can overcome your challenges and find some joy in this world." Katie Jay

AnneGG
on 4/27/14 10:09 am
Topic: RE: Can't find rants and raves

Um, excuse me? You have lost an amazing amount in pretty short order!

Are you the person I talked with about Dr. Aranow and me going to one of his support groups? I'm in Farmington.

"What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the master calls the butterfly." Richard Bach

"Support fosters your growth. If you are getting enough of the right support, you will experience a major transformation in yourself. You will discover a sense of empowerment and peace you have never before experienced. You will come to believe you can overcome your challenges and find some joy in this world." Katie Jay

KevinBacon
on 4/27/14 9:52 am
VSG on 03/10/14
Topic: RE: Diva Cup or something similar

I wanted to try them when they first came out but my friend tried them first and left it in too long and she went to take it out and it exploded all over her clothes! that was my deciding factor in choosing to go ahead and pass lol

HW: 318 Date of Surgery: 3/10/14 SW: 270  CW: 154

  

KevinBacon
on 4/27/14 9:48 am
VSG on 03/10/14
Topic: RE: Sockpuppeting - Lame or Cool?

There is nothing cool about creating the accounts at all if all you're going to do is spend time  antagonizing people.

Life is too short as it is. I don't get it.

HW: 318 Date of Surgery: 3/10/14 SW: 270  CW: 154

  

RNY on 10/21/13
Topic: RE: Sockpuppeting - Lame or Cool?

Umm, yeah. You have a point! Way to think outside of the box! 

LAP RNY 10.21.13  Pounds lost by month: 1: 34 2: 25 3: 16 4: 12 5: 7 6: 18 7: 10 8: 8 9:15 10:10 11: 10  12:  Total so far: 190! pounds

 

Maya J.
on 4/27/14 9:16 am
Topic: RE: Sockpuppeting - Lame or Cool?

Unless it's a fire extinguisher, right?

Teri Turner
on 4/27/14 9:06 am - WA
Topic: RE: Sockpuppeting - Lame or Cool?

Some people use them to harass (and sometimes recruit meat puppets to join them in the attacks, defaming, besmirching, etc)... 

Many use them to simply have a bit of fun, perhaps an alternate persona, for the purpose of say something they usually aren't (be it silly, irreverent or harsh  -  even violating social mores) 

I say, if the purpose is antisocial in nature, regardless of the target, that it is far better to be yourself and just lay it out there.   If you feel moved to say it, then own it.   Just own it. 

 

 

RNY on 10/21/13
Topic: RE: Sockpuppeting - Lame or Cool?

Ah, thank you for the definition. I had no idea this was what you were talking about until you posted the definition. I was wondering why you were thinking about children's sock puppets. Hahaha. I'm the first to admit I am NOT forum savvy at all, in fact, I think this is my second, maybe third forum ever. Anyway...

I have been on OH for about a year now and I have noticed many people come and go who, in my opinion, have had multiple accounts. I am not sure what their purpose or rationale is/was, but I can usually pick them out pretty quick because they tend to have a similar writing style and other things. I've always thought they were called trolls, so I considered myself a great troll hunter...sock puppet hunter just doesn't have the same ring to it. 

There are few that stand out in my mind because they didn't like how they were responded to on a post so they came back with guns blazing to "defend" the OP (kinda like the debacle on a certain forum that was pulled last night - I believe at least two of the posters were the same person). Another handful that ended up ******g off so many people that they were blocked and could not get anyone to interact with them, so they created new identities to get back at and "show" every one and "teach them a lesson" (not sure what the lesson was, though). Who knows why some people do what they do and what their agenda is or might be. 

If you have something to say then stand by your words and say it and let the consequences happen. I have no respect for these people that go back and edit their posts, delete them, etc. If I have nothing to say or I'm not interested in a topic, I don't reply. If I post something and go back in and edit it, I make a note at the bottom why I edited it and it is usually for spelling, typos, or more often than not, damned autocorrect!!! I feel the same way for PMs that talk about specific people - I've been very vocal about this and will continue to be because I believe in transparency.

LAP RNY 10.21.13  Pounds lost by month: 1: 34 2: 25 3: 16 4: 12 5: 7 6: 18 7: 10 8: 8 9:15 10:10 11: 10  12:  Total so far: 190! pounds

 

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