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I also faced the issue of cellulite after the birth of my second baby. I should say, massages, excercise and moisturizing really works for me (I use warm oilve oil twice per week). Also I tried Mustella cream (I used it mostly to prevent cellulite during my first pregnancy), and it is good.
Maybe it comes down to " DADDY ISSUES " . My Dad was ( and remains) horribly unsupportive , backstabbing, threatening , cruel manipulative and will literally throw any family member away to control their money .
I look at men as potential murderers who would kill me to inherit what I worked so hard for .
The few relationships I've had ( been alone far longer) were superficial and sex based - and over after the honeymoon lust-phase started its inevitable decline .
I've imagined for a few years that after my parents pass perhaps I could find a tall hot Swede or Nordic type expert sailor and cruise the world with him and raise a few babies . But I also realized I'd live in terror that he'd throw me overboard after an argument to inherit my money and have silence . Every man I know is unfeeling and very dangerous at least at times . They may regret it but you'll still be dead .
Well yes as a diabetic and super early excess estrogen caused breast cancer survivor I would be NUTS to consider carrying my own child ... however I saved my eggs so I can have my own kids whenever I want .
I'm not in the least afraid of being " old " as they grow because I'm not remotely old now ... ( thank God) .. However they are needy little creatures not to mention expensive ... and I'm just getting started in the career I've always desired and dreamed of . Which is also hugely demanding. And yes I prefer having kids with a partner ( though I see ever more divorces and horrible custody battles where the kids are used as hostages to get the more affluent parent to support the deadbeat one)
Yep ... it's like the Mos Totally Inapproriate Time... but when is d time right to have a $ 300,000 burden lol?! ( cost of raising one child and sending em thru college ... prob radically underestimated lol)
truth is I see th childless friends over my parents retiring and dying alone .... so sad .
Peeple w kids and grandkids r much happier more fulfilled and proud .
how do you new parents and potential parents feel struggling with these huge issues ? Are you ok with Ur food ? Do you scarf down your kids foods leftovers ? I can imagine so many nightmares ty
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Do you honestly think they will ever graduate from high school?
6'3" tall, male.
Highest weight was 475. RNY on 08/21/12. Current weight: 198.
M1 -24; M2 -21; M3 -19; M4 -21; M5 -13; M6 -21; M7 -10; M8 -16; M9 -10; M10 -8; M11 -6; M12 -5.
Shouldn't this be in the off-topic forum? And aren't you worried you're too old to start having kids? Won't you be nearly 70 when they graduate high school?
- I thought you said you had fertility issues and that was your concern of getting with a young boy because he would want kids...
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Honestly I don't need a website lovey though I very much your thinking and sweet reference ((()))). I meet "willing " guys literally every day .
I changed my phone number so many times( and so not that beautiful ) .... I just have to get away :(. I never feel safe and honestly I'm not beautiful.... but I'm very scared
Good lord ! If I had to a pay a guy in any way... guys pay me ( but that doesn't make m a d we'dhore just a realistic grrl)
Yep ... it's like the Mos Totally Inapproriate Time... but when is d time right to have a $ 300,000 burden lol?! ( cost of raising one child and sending em thru college ... prob radically underestimated lol)
truth is I see th childless friends over my parents retiring and dying alone .... so sad .
Peeple w kids and grandkids r much happier more fulfilled and proud .
how do you new parents and potential parents feel struggling with these huge issues ? Are you ok with Ur food ? Do you scarf down your kids foods leftovers ? I can imagine so many nightmares ty
