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There was good advice given. I am only referring to two people. And yep, I have history with the ******** who think they are above kindness on this site because they "earned it".
on 5/22/14 8:02 am
Entirely possible that I missed them; I read the thread once before the apparent deletion. Work has been busy and I've been doing too much cycling to pay much attention to OH as of late.
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Sparklekitty / Julie / Nerdy Little Secret (#42)
Roller derby - cycling - triathlon
VSG 2013, RNY conversion 2019 due to GERD. Trendweight here!
There was more to it then that....you are being disingenuous....there was also some good advice given...perhaps not in the most hand holding manner....but good advice in my opinion....I did not view any comment re she was making up her issues....the thread was likely pulled before I re-read it
...also.....an asshole is an asshole...whether a month out or 10 years out.....and you are going to get this on a public forum.....you cant just tell people to leave and its done.....
You sound very angry....their must be some past history with you and this forum?
It's the same thread. You must have missed or skipped over the offending ****ty things said.
on 5/22/14 7:58 am
Not attempting to make a direct comparison to any sort of mentorship; just pointing you in the direction of the relevent literature, since you seem to be so interested in peer-review science at the moment.
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Sparklekitty / Julie / Nerdy Little Secret (#42)
Roller derby - cycling - triathlon
VSG 2013, RNY conversion 2019 due to GERD. Trendweight here!
That wasn't directed at birdy. It was to anyone who finds guilt in the meaning. You know who you are.
on 5/22/14 7:57 am
"Please explain how you would feel" if after explaining your opinion on a support board, you were told "you [were] not needed here anymore."
You're asking another person, right here, right now, to have empathy... and then pretty much telling her to go away. I KNOW you know from personal experience what it's like to think (correctly or no) that your own opinion is unnecessary.
Not cool, sister.
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Sparklekitty / Julie / Nerdy Little Secret (#42)
Roller derby - cycling - triathlon
VSG 2013, RNY conversion 2019 due to GERD. Trendweight here!