Dating
I had a revelatory experience over Halloween in Palm Beach - I am ABSOLUTELY NOT INTERESTED IN OLD MEN! period exclamation point never ever ever barf .
so there's a dilemma ! I've been rejecting guys forever cuz I simply didn't feel attractive... now I'm in a really scary place where the few guys I'm attracted to really have no business with me . It's like a circling ... circling ... spend time together ever so casually thing .
fertility is a real issue . As is sex . Answers anyone ?
What are you saying exactly? That the type that are interested in you, you're not interested in? And the type you are interested in, are not interested in you? That would be a dilemma! Is it a physical rejection immediately, or do you allow time to know each other? And "old Men" is relative. How old are you, or what do YOU consider as old? The more restrictive our requirements. the smaller the pool we have to choose from. But it's your right, your choice. My wife is 17 years younger than I, but even now more mature than I. And she chose me even when I was over 300 lbs and in reality "an older man"! So we don't want to forget where we came from, where we were judged by how we look when perhaps a beautiful person was inside ready to come out. I mean, if you're not attractive to someone, you're not attractive, but at least give yourself a chance. No answer, just a thought. Wish you well!
Willie - some guuurls , who are over 50 like boys , who are in their 20s...so I have read...!
Not me! I am 62. My husband, of nearly 30 years is 66. He works very, very hard, and comes every night. He is faithful. He worships me He loves God. , THOSE are sexy qualities!!
RNY 4-22-02...
LW: 6lb,10 oz SW:340lb GW:170lb CW:155
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Jim Age 58 Height 6 Feet Consult Weight 344 SW 289 Pre-Surgery -55, M1 -25, M2 -16, M3 -21, M4 -10, M5 -5, M6 -1, M7 -4, M8 0, M9 +4, M10 -4
So, between old men, young men, and fertility worries, there's only one option. Old wimmen. Keep us updated.
6'3" tall, male.
Highest weight was 475. RNY on 08/21/12. Current weight: 198.
M1 -24; M2 -21; M3 -19; M4 -21; M5 -13; M6 -21; M7 -10; M8 -16; M9 -10; M10 -8; M11 -6; M12 -5.