Geting divorced from a fellow fattie ( can we say former ?) . Shall I RAPE him financially or (...
da let him go ( agree to his very one sided settlement offer )
first thing - he was incredibly cruel to me financially . He was extremely emotionally immature .. he expected me ( a 21 year disabled woman on a SSD small fixed income check ) to provide for him as opposedto him making over $250,000 a year thanks to the business his father handed to him .HIS was never enough ( cuz hes a financial fool) so he thought marrying me would get him more INCOME lol 
. My question is .. do I let him get off the hook with a settlement orNOT . Im inclined to NOT ...
I really hate gold-diggers. I mean, going after someone for a cut of their SSD check.
6'3" tall, male.
Highest weight was 475. RNY on 08/21/12. Current weight: 198.
M1 -24; M2 -21; M3 -19; M4 -21; M5 -13; M6 -21; M7 -10; M8 -16; M9 -10; M10 -8; M11 -6; M12 -5.
You crack me up EVERY time! 
Marriage is about loving and caring for another person and making their life as happy and stress-free as possible. I met my husband when I was eighteen and we spent forty-three years together until he died.
If we had divorced, I would have still wanted him to be happy and financially secure. There were times when he provided the bulk of the support and there were times when I did. I wanted to give him everything he needed and he wanted to give me everything that I needed.
I am much older now but I am in a relationship where I want to make my significant other's life better because I am in his life. We are deeply in love with each other but if I married him there would be a clear-cut prenuptial agreement in place.
If you truly loved this man enough to want to marry him and share his life then remember and honor those feelings of love when you consider financial aspects of the breakup. Marriage is for better or for worse, in sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer, until death do you part.
Divorce is a painful and unnatural process for both parties. It is a failure at love for both parties. Both are hurt and both experience loneliness, depression and feelings of failure. Treat him with compassion, respect and kindness, not because he deserves it but because you deserve to be proud of your actions.
You did not spend decades sacrificing your life so he could develop his career, bearing and raising his children, caring for him through long and debilitating illness, supporting him when he did not have enough income to pay his own way. When you go before a judge to fight for more money, then you would need to convince the judge that you earned that money by your long term sacrifice and devotion.
Real life begins where your comfort zone ends
So nicely said! Anyone would benefit from reading this once in a while...just to remember
All posts that I make on this site, any forum, are a result in my having experience and caring for anyone having to go through life as an obese person. If you have medical issues, please see your doctor for medical advice.
Karen
on 6/24/15 9:08 pm
Some things never change. I've been gone from the boards for 3 years, and Meeoww is now 21. What a great country we live in. She has been spinning tales for years, and I can't keep track of them all. Don't feed the kitty is all I can say. She needs more help than anyone here can give her.
