Geting divorced from a fellow fattie ( can we say former ?) . Shall I RAPE him financially or (...

(deactivated member)
on 8/6/14 4:59 pm

da let him go ( agree to his very one sided settlement offer )   

first thing - he was incredibly cruel to me financially .  He was extremely emotionally immature .. he expected me ( a 21 year disabled woman on a SSD small fixed income check  )  to provide for him  as opposedto him making over $250,000 a year thanks to the business his father handed to him .HIS was never enough ( cuz hes a financial fool)  so he thought marrying me would get him more INCOME  lol .  My question is .. do I let him get off the hook with a settlement orNOT .  Im inclined to NOT ...

Sparklekitty, Science-Loving Derby Hag
on 8/7/14 12:58 am
RNY on 08/05/19

Trivializing sexual assault is exceptionally classy. 

Sparklekitty / Julie / Nerdy Little Secret (#42)
Roller derby - cycling - triathlon
VSG 2013, RNY conversion 2019 due to GERD. Trendweight here!

Ladytazz
on 8/7/14 4:35 am
Ladytazz
on 8/7/14 4:32 am

First, 21 year olds?  WTF?

Second, wasn't this the guy who was going to give you a mansion because he loved you so much?  And the reason he loved you was because of your model good looks and that is why woman should have WLS, so they can attract a millionaire to buy them mansions?

And what happened to the 400 lbs step son?  Is he getting the money?

Did the rehab send you home too soon?  Did you leave against medical advice?

WLS 10/28/2002 Revision 7/23/2010

High Weight  (2002) 240 Revision Weight (2010) 220 Current Weight 115.

noftessa0401
on 8/8/14 4:21 am - San Diego, CA
RNY on 12/27/12

As a way to promote job security (and because it is the smart thing to do), I suggest you consult with a family law attorney.

HW: 274 | SW: 232 | CW: 137 | Goal: 145 (ticker includes a 42 pound loss pre-op) | Height: 5'4"

M1: -24 (205) | M2: -14 (191) | M3: -11 (180) | M4: -7 (173) | M5: -7 (166) | M6: -8 (158) | M7: -11 (147) | M8: -2 (145) | M9: -3 (142) | M10: -2 (140) | M11: -4 (136) | M12: -2 (134) | M13: -0 (134) | M14: -3 (131) | M15: +4 (135) | M16: +2 (137)

noftessa0401
on 8/8/14 4:28 am - San Diego, CA
RNY on 12/27/12

Maybe it is to promote job security, but I suggest you consult with a family law attorney licensed in your state.

HW: 274 | SW: 232 | CW: 137 | Goal: 145 (ticker includes a 42 pound loss pre-op) | Height: 5'4"

M1: -24 (205) | M2: -14 (191) | M3: -11 (180) | M4: -7 (173) | M5: -7 (166) | M6: -8 (158) | M7: -11 (147) | M8: -2 (145) | M9: -3 (142) | M10: -2 (140) | M11: -4 (136) | M12: -2 (134) | M13: -0 (134) | M14: -3 (131) | M15: +4 (135) | M16: +2 (137)

bertgamble2001
on 8/6/14 8:11 pm - Willits, CA

If you are already calling it finacial rape, why would you want to do it?

What, if anything did you do to help him earn that supposed $250,000?  How long have you been marrried?  Did you help him build the company, or did you just sit back and let him support you?  What is the reason for your divorce?  What has he offered? 

    

bertgamble2001
on 8/6/14 8:21 pm - Willits, CA

I just saw another of your posts where you say you have a multi-million dollar inheritance, and are a former elected offical.  Did you spend all your millions already?

    

Valerie G.
on 8/6/14 10:12 pm - Northwest Mountains, GA

Now that's an interesting plot twist.  An heiress on SSD???

Valerie
DS 2005

There is room on this earth for all of God's creatures..
next to the mashed potatoes

Sparklekitty, Science-Loving Derby Hag
on 8/7/14 6:03 am
RNY on 08/05/19

A former elected official at 21? Wow, guess that term started early.

Sparklekitty / Julie / Nerdy Little Secret (#42)
Roller derby - cycling - triathlon
VSG 2013, RNY conversion 2019 due to GERD. Trendweight here!

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