Is it helpful... (x post)

Janice25
on 5/22/14 9:51 am
On May 22, 2014 at 2:50 PM Pacific Time, KevinBacon wrote:

She was accused of making up her issues. Please explain how you would feel if after suffering complications and venting on your support board, you were met with that attitude? 

I like the way people think that just because they have time on the board it gives them a pass to act like an asshole. And by like I mean it's garbage. If you can't get your **** together enough to actually behave like a human being anymore because you've become so desensitized to this process and exactly what it's like in the beginning then it's time for you to find a NEW HOBBY for the love of everything good in the world. Seriously. Move on with your life. You're not needed here anymore. 

You just being mean and attacking her personally. That is not cool..  Not cool at all.. 

Selina12
on 5/22/14 3:58 pm, edited 5/22/14 3:59 pm - Canada

You need a therapist, Kevin. Likely a more appropriate outlet.

HW-317  SW-310  CW-148  Mar(-25.5). Apr(-16.8). May(-14). June(-15.6). July(-18.1). Aug(-8). Sept(-7). Oct(-12.2). Nov(-6.6). Dec(-1.3). Jan(-13.3). Feb(-6.7). Mar(-5.2)        Surgery February 28th, 2014     Dr. Aceves    Goal Weight: 150-135  

    

(deactivated member)
on 5/23/14 8:47 am
VSG on 03/04/14 with
On May 22, 2014 at 2:50 PM Pacific Time, KevinBacon wrote:

She was accused of making up her issues. Please explain how you would feel if after suffering complications and venting on your support board, you were met with that attitude? 

I like the way people think that just because they have time on the board it gives them a pass to act like an asshole. And by like I mean it's garbage. If you can't get your **** together enough to actually behave like a human being anymore because you've become so desensitized to this process and exactly what it's like in the beginning then it's time for you to find a NEW HOBBY for the love of everything good in the world. Seriously. Move on with your life. You're not needed here anymore. 

I read all of the original thread. No one was out of line, or acted like an a-hole. If you disagree with some of the help offered, so be it. But I think everyone was trying to be helpful.

Patm
on 5/27/14 3:24 am - Ontario, Canada
RNY on 01/20/12

Actually it is people like you that are not needed. I would take Birdie girl any day over the drivel you usually spout

  

 

 

 

KevinBacon
on 5/22/14 7:33 am
VSG on 03/10/14

Also, again, we're not talking about constructive criticism. They accused her of making up all of her issues for attention.  

HW: 318 Date of Surgery: 3/10/14 SW: 270  CW: 154

  

Sparklekitty, Science-Loving Derby Hag
on 5/22/14 7:53 am
RNY on 08/05/19

Are we even talking about the same post? Most of the comments on the ER thread (if memory serves) were those that said, more or less, that the OP should try drinking more water through several suggested methods or consider getting IV treatment from a non-emergency medical provider. And the angry replies amounted to, "you don't know my story, it's complicated," with no further elaboration nor appreciation for attempts to help with a problem that can be very serious.

Sparklekitty / Julie / Nerdy Little Secret (#42)
Roller derby - cycling - triathlon
VSG 2013, RNY conversion 2019 due to GERD. Trendweight here!

(deactivated member)
on 5/22/14 7:58 am - Canada
KevinBacon
on 5/22/14 8:00 am
VSG on 03/10/14

It's the same thread. You must have missed or skipped over the offending ****ty things said. 

HW: 318 Date of Surgery: 3/10/14 SW: 270  CW: 154

  

Sparklekitty, Science-Loving Derby Hag
on 5/22/14 8:02 am
RNY on 08/05/19

Entirely possible that I missed them; I read the thread once before the apparent deletion. Work has been busy and I've been doing too much cycling to pay much attention to OH as of late.

Sparklekitty / Julie / Nerdy Little Secret (#42)
Roller derby - cycling - triathlon
VSG 2013, RNY conversion 2019 due to GERD. Trendweight here!

KevinBacon
on 5/22/14 8:06 am
VSG on 03/10/14

Happens to the best of us. 

HW: 318 Date of Surgery: 3/10/14 SW: 270  CW: 154

  

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