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She was accused of making up her issues. Please explain how you would feel if after suffering complications and venting on your support board, you were met with that attitude?
I like the way people think that just because they have time on the board it gives them a pass to act like an asshole. And by like I mean it's garbage. If you can't get your **** together enough to actually behave like a human being anymore because you've become so desensitized to this process and exactly what it's like in the beginning then it's time for you to find a NEW HOBBY for the love of everything good in the world. Seriously. Move on with your life. You're not needed here anymore.
You just being mean and attacking her personally. That is not cool.. Not cool at all..
on 5/23/14 8:47 am
She was accused of making up her issues. Please explain how you would feel if after suffering complications and venting on your support board, you were met with that attitude?
I like the way people think that just because they have time on the board it gives them a pass to act like an asshole. And by like I mean it's garbage. If you can't get your **** together enough to actually behave like a human being anymore because you've become so desensitized to this process and exactly what it's like in the beginning then it's time for you to find a NEW HOBBY for the love of everything good in the world. Seriously. Move on with your life. You're not needed here anymore.
I read all of the original thread. No one was out of line, or acted like an a-hole. If you disagree with some of the help offered, so be it. But I think everyone was trying to be helpful.
on 5/22/14 7:53 am
Are we even talking about the same post? Most of the comments on the ER thread (if memory serves) were those that said, more or less, that the OP should try drinking more water through several suggested methods or consider getting IV treatment from a non-emergency medical provider. And the angry replies amounted to, "you don't know my story, it's complicated," with no further elaboration nor appreciation for attempts to help with a problem that can be very serious.
Sparklekitty / Julie / Nerdy Little Secret (#42)
Roller derby - cycling - triathlon
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on 5/22/14 8:02 am
Entirely possible that I missed them; I read the thread once before the apparent deletion. Work has been busy and I've been doing too much cycling to pay much attention to OH as of late.
Sparklekitty / Julie / Nerdy Little Secret (#42)
Roller derby - cycling - triathlon
VSG 2013, RNY conversion 2019 due to GERD. Trendweight here!