Im Lost

In deep Pain I'm Lost It hurts

Hey Kenny.......what's going on? SH

Where do you hurt? How can we help? If you are feeling emotionally lost, it is a common phenomenon on the WLS road for many, a time to rediscover who we are, where we want to be, grieving the loss of old self, reconnecting w/ emotions we numbed ourself w/ food for so long, a real balancing act time, transitionally a challenge for many. Journaling is by far one of the best means to rediscovering you! I also recommend individual counselling for some personal growth! Take Care, Jamie Lap RNY 10/9/02 Dr. Singh 320/163 5'9'' (lost 45# before surgery) Plastics 6/9/04 & 11/11/2005 Dr. King http://www.obesityhelp.com/morbidobesity/members/profile.php?N=c1132518510 "Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect, it just means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections!"

guess u need to give us more info to help! SENDING postive thoughts u way for what ever is ailing u! lisa

Hey Kenny ....Whats up? LisaMarie

How can we help? {{{{{{HUGS}}}}}

Thanks to everyone for responding. Im so sorry I posted this, in hind sight it looks and sounds bad. I was very very down last night and it should not have been posted this way! I will survive! Thanks to all! K

Kenny, I hope you are having a better day. Remember, your OH pals are here if you need to talk. SH

I'm sorry Kenny. I am going through the same thing too. Depression. It can be common after WLS. But I've lived liked this for the last 7 years, on and off(more on) so the level of depression is not anything new to me. I went to the Dr yesterday and restarted my umpteenth million antidepressant med. I've been on this one before. I am hoping this time it will work. I am depressed because I don't like living in NY, even though born and raised here. So meds don't help the situational depression, but I am hoping it will give me the "jump" to get off my butt and do something about it. I think maybe I thought surgery would fix more than it is, even after losing 54 pounds. Vent anytime! Kristine