Mom suprised me with reaction

I wasn't going to tell my mom about starting the process for surgery yet for fear of her reaction. I decided the other day to tell her....I figured I could use all the support I can get. She reacted completely opposite of what I thought she would. She was actually happy and relieved. She didn't want to bring it up since she feels it is a "personal" decision not to be influenced by someone else. Go Mom!!

Makes things alot easier when you have support! That is good news for you. Best of luck. LisaMarie

Rachelle, Wow that is just awesome news hun...and here you thought you might have a problem with her reaction. I know for sure it makes it easier when you have the support of family for sure.... That is great news hun.. Debra P

go Mom!! Glad to hear you have some great support. i know if it wasnt for my super support team behind me, this process would have been very hard for me!! Lisa 371/187/140

That's great, Rachelle! My mother was probably my biggest supporter of my surgery. I think after watching me go up and down all these years, and struggling, she knew it would be something that could really help. Kristine

Rachelle, Nice news. I had a similar experience with my mom too. I guess it's better to be honest and find out who's really behind you. That's true in life in general!! Congrats! Amy

It is nice. And that is very true Amy. It is best to be honest. Even though we don't live together, my family is such a big part of a support team.

Hi Rachelle, Aren't Moms a trip?? They never cease to surprise us. I am so happy for you --that she is supportive. It is great to have someone so important in your life standing with you during the journey. Best of luck Be Blessed, Marian S.C. 242.4 / 172.2/goal 125-130??

Marian, I just wanted to say that I'm so impressed with your stats. I'm starting out about where you did, so it really connects.

Hi Rachelle, I think that's cool that you Mom's right there with ya to give her support. I know I was nervous bringing it up to my Mom as well and was surprised at her reaction, too. I know I'm her only daughter and her baby and all, so I wasn't surprised that she brought up some cons, but she's there for me whatever I decide to do. So is my hubby. I love them both so much. I know they'd be nervous for me, but they also know how important this is to me. I know my brother's, sister-in-law and nieces and nephews would be supportive as well. Talk about a support group. Between my family and friends here on the board, how can anyone go wrong. I'm so glad things are going well for you. Diane