waiting on a date

I am waiting for a surgery date right now. I have been cleared by all involved but I can't seem to get my husband to be supportive of it. He has said to me that he just can't support me in this surgery. I don't know if he is afraid that something will happen to me or that I will leave him when I lose the weight. I have asked him but he will not say. Any suggestions?

hi Eileen My husband never spoke to me about the surgery, I think they are scared of something happening and they won't admitt it.....he will come around just give him time..... Wishing you the best through out your journey to a healthier and happier lifestyle.... Christine