Bandster Failure

Kenny,      I don't know where in NY you live, but we are having a Lap-Band Support Group Meeting tomorrow night in North Babylon, Long Island.  If you are anywhere near us, we wold welcome having you, and it sounds like you could use some support.  Please PM me for location and directions if you can make it.  Blessings, Ron

Oh you are so NOT a failure dude.  Coming on here, talking about it, recognizing and admitting you've gained and saying exactly why, is SUCCESS.  We gotta stop concentrating on what we "weigh" as success or failure.  PLEASE take Ron up on his offer of the support group in Long Island if you can.  If not, FIND ANOTHER one.  People who do best do so because of the amount and frequency of their support, and you sound like you could use quite a bit.  Don't stop pursuing your dreams because of a setback.  Setbacks are only part of the journey - they are NOT the destination.  ((((((HUGS))))))