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Finsternis
on 3/13/18 5:15 pm, edited 3/13/18 10:16 am - NH
Topic: RE: Is there ANYONE here who is NOT getting surgery?

I had to lost at least 200lbs. So far I've lost about 40 in about 3.5 months. No surgery, no "diets", no killing myself on the treadmill, no cost, no hassle, no giving up the things I like to eat forever.

Bestusernamesarego
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on 3/13/18 9:11 am
Topic: RE: Is there ANYONE here who is NOT getting surgery?

How's that working for you? Mind you business and I'll mind mine.

Lisajc70
on 3/13/18 7:44 am
Topic: RE: Is there ANYONE here who is NOT getting surgery?

I think that until you can provide the research that IF is as effective as WLS LONG TERM, then nobody here is going to take you very seriously. I've lost weight with IF, Atkins, Low Fat, you name it. I've kept it off for greater than 6 months even, but never long term. You can call me weak minded, duped, whatever you want, but the fact is, that I chose WLS because of the research that showed long term results. It's not an easy or light decision to make, and many of us wait years to make the decision, so that we can try one last method to try to get the weight off and keep it off. In the meantime, we face people like you, who tell us all the reason we are wrong, duped, shills. Yeah, may I suggest a book called How to Win Friends and Influence People?

Lisa RNY 1/8/18 SW: 203 lbs CW: 135 lbs

In maintenance since August 2018. Tummy tuck and liposuction done May 9, 2019.

Gina 22 years out
on 3/13/18 6:55 am - Burleson, TX
Topic: RE: Is there ANYONE here who is NOT getting surgery?

Thank you, Donna!! I know, for ME, when I see "blanket statements", I am immediately turned off

RNY 4-22-02...

LW: 6lb,10 oz SW:340lb GW:170lb CW:155

We Can Do Hard Things

Gina 22 years out
on 3/13/18 6:48 am - Burleson, TX
Topic: RE: Is there ANYONE here who is NOT getting surgery?

I'm probably the best "qualified", of the current members, to answer this. When Eric started the site, in 1998? 1999? WLS was not at all as "In vogue" as it is now. When I joined, in 2001, we had ONE forum, and a chat room. PERIOD. We were all in those 2 places--surgery or not.

RNY 4-22-02...

LW: 6lb,10 oz SW:340lb GW:170lb CW:155

We Can Do Hard Things

Gina 22 years out
on 3/13/18 6:45 am - Burleson, TX
Topic: RE: Is there ANYONE here who is NOT getting surgery?

I'll take your 6 months, and raise you 15 years :)


RNY 4-22-02...

LW: 6lb,10 oz SW:340lb GW:170lb CW:155

We Can Do Hard Things

Gwen M.
on 3/13/18 6:29 am
VSG on 03/13/14
Topic: RE: Close to goal but lost on what to eat

I find that Paleo blogs have great WLS-friendly recipes.

VSG with Dr. Salameh - 3/13/2014
Diagnosed with Binge Eating Disorder and started Vyvanse - 7/22/2016
Reconstructive Surgeries with Dr. Michaels - 6/5/2017 (LBL & brachioplasty), 8/14/2017 (UBL & mastopexy), 11/6/2017 (medial leg lift)

Age 42 Height 5'4" HW 319 (1/3/2014) SW 293 (3/13/2014) CW 149 (7/16/2017)
Next Goal 145 - normal BMI | Total Weight Lost 170

TrendWeight | Food Blog (sort of functional) | Journal (down for maintenance)

White Dove
on 3/12/18 9:29 pm - Warren, OH
Topic: RE: Is there ANYONE here who is NOT getting surgery?

You can lose weight on any diet plan. High fat, low fat, high carb, low carb, high protein, KETO, IF or any other plan. Losing weight is the easy part.

Keeping it off is the hard part. About 50% of weight loss surgery patients have regained 50% of their lost weight by year five.

About 95% of non-weight-loss surgery dieters have regained 100% of their lost weight by year five.

Your chance of keeping weight off long term is 5% of less with surgery.

In addition, re-routing your intestines is taking the easy way out. It is far easier to lose weight when you lose your hunger and can no longer eat much at a time.

Real life begins where your comfort zone ends

Ladytazz
on 3/12/18 9:00 pm
Topic: RE: Is there ANYONE here who is NOT getting surgery?

I had a long response all typed up and then I said "Why bother?" You have absolutely no credibility to me. None. You have managed to stick it out six months. That means nothing to me. Check back this time next year and I'll be impressed. Six months. Jeez. What a joke. I can't even believe you are boasting about that. I would be embarrassed to tell people that I have the magic answer after only six months. I could stick to most diets for six months. What I could never do without surgery is maintain a normal BMI for seven years. That impresses me.

Dial me up in seven years and I will be impressed. Hell, check in a year from now and you might have my attention. Until then I would just keep quiet until you have some long term success under your belt before you start telling people to forget surgery and jump on your bandwagon.

WLS 10/28/2002 Revision 7/23/2010

High Weight  (2002) 240 Revision Weight (2010) 220 Current Weight 115.

H.A.L.A B.
on 3/12/18 7:24 pm
Topic: RE: Is there ANYONE here who is NOT getting surgery?

You just doing the IF for 6 months.

Do it successfully for 6+ years with no major regain and then I may think you have a valid points.

I was overweight most of my life. Most, not all. Because I would work really hard do anything possible, lose ALL the excess weight.... Only to gain it back 2-3 years later. There was not one diet methods I did not try, including IF with Keto-paleo.

And every single time I would regain not only what I lost but I few more pounds.

At 47 I realized that my body got used to all of the diet, fasting, cleanses, etc etc...and I would lose 2-3 lbs only to regain it.

Did I like the idea of wls? Nope. First time I thought about it - I read and research all and decided I don't want it, that I could do it all on my own. And I did. I lost the excessive fat, and got really trim and fit, with muscles. I was very active person. But within a few years, with back issues, steroids injections, age, etc, I slowly regained what I lost.

RNY or any WLS should be the last resort. It was for me. I lost all my excess weight within 10 months and maintain it. I had a temporary weight regain, but I dealt with that.

I have some complications,- but I think that I had my WLS too late in my life. Damage was already done to my body with yoyo dieting over my 35 years ..

I have been maintaining my weight loss by following simple steps. I eat until I am full, but eat mindfully. I eat proteins and fat and some carbs.

I follow IF most of the time, but I have a freedom of eating what my body needs.

I can eat a reasonable portion. I eat cheese, and meats, eggs, good fat (butter) or nuts.

The RNY allows me to be satisfied with smaller portions. I don't need to gorge myself.

WLS is a major help for obesity. I think of WLS as major step in helping the obesity. At the present time - WLS offer people a chance of losing weight and keeping it off. It is a tool.

Like my cataract surgery that removed and replaced my lenses. Or Lasik surgery that help me see better.

I wish you well. But I am saddened by your judgement. I hope you can be one of the 5% who can lose weight by diet and exercise and maintain that long-term.

I used to be like you. Until one day my body refused to lose any weight and keeping it off. And I chose to have WLS. Because that gave me a chance to be normal weight.

You have not tried it all or done it all. Lose and maintain for at least 6 years. Then try to help others.

Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG

"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"

"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

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