Hi Kellie,
Well, this has become a very good example. Thank you for your question. You see, nutrition is very individual. What works for some, does not necessarily work for others. You may have noticed that sometimes we (the dietitians with enutritioncare.com) don't post individualized recommendations. We often tell OH-posters that we would need to do a full nutrition assessment to answer questions about calories, protein, fat, and carbs. One plan does not work for all.
As you can see, someone on an average post-op diet of 1200-1500 calories, the 40-35-25 model I discussed would work well. But it doesn't work for all, like you just pointed out to me. We do want people to see dietitians for an individualized plan not only because we want to make money and earn a living, but because it's really important that you have someone tell you what is right for YOU and that you don't adapt someone else's diet plan to you. EveryBODY is different - I'm sure you've heard that before, but really, it's true.
You do exercise a lot - and 2000 calories is a good level for you. Now, I don't know your history, but with the information you have given me, I'd probably give you extra carb calories as 175 g of protein is high for long term. Unless, of course, you are heavily lifting weights, but 2 times per week is not "heavily lifting".
My recommendation for you would be: 125 g (ish) pro, 250 g (ish) carb, 50 g (ish) fat. Getting the carbs from whole grains, fresh fruit and vegetables. Protein from lean meat/fish and legumes & fat from 'good fats' like olive oil, canola oil, avacodo ...
If you start lifting more, you will need to increase the protein. 50 g of fat can also be difficult to stick to ---
There are so many things that go into these calorie recommendations that it's really important to seek and individualized nutrition assessment from a registered dietitian. I'm giving you these recommendations with the little information I have. If you have a dietitian in your area or in your surgeon's office, I would recommend you seek his/her advice as well.
Good luck!!
Sara Nejat-Bina, RD, CNSD, CDE
Registered Dietitian