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tadair
on 6/23/14 12:14 am - UT
Topic: RE: Is 100 pound weight loss possible without surgery?

Hello,  

I think there is a way to lose weight, high amounts of weight, and I am also looking.  I had convinced myself I would have a sleeve and just decided I was rather terrified ... is there another way(s)?  I realize that the other response to your question is a GREAT way to do this, but I guess I am looking for another tool to add to my 'will power'.  I honestly see myself as a food addict, and have decided to go to OA (overeaters anonymous) for a while and put a plan into place. 

But I am searching for another somewhat NON surgical device or tool to assist myself.  There are quite a few things available and 'just coming out'.  I do realize that most of the folks on this board are researching or have already done WLS of some type, so I came here to find others seeking other ways, and realize there may not be many folks here that are on my path of research at the moment.  That's ok.  I was pleased to see this topic on the forum.

I have used Pinterest to store my research.  I am reading a lot of doctor's research papers and things that are by doctors and for doctors, and looking at statistics that are listed for each device.  Many of the devices I have searched are approved in Europe and Australia and are being used there currently.  So trials have been done for most of these, in other countries, already.  Trial reports always include statistics, but you must remember that the struggle is later on, keeping it off.  I am interested in medications, and somewhat 'non surgical' devices or tools to assist me.

The one I am most interested in is Endobarrier.  Do a google search and read up.  There are USA trials ongoing now, and I hope to perhaps be a candidate.  Please realize, I have researched WLS for quite some years now, and though I had decided on a sleeve, and was researching Mexican doctors, I just decided to wait and try something not quite so permanent for now.  I do have a lot of weight to lose, and many of these devices seem to assist only for a somewhat smaller amount, but I am ok with that for now.  The endobarrier can be used to lose more weight, with a small change the doctor makes to it, or so I have read.  

Whether it be gastric balloons, meds, plastic sheath, a pill that expands into a balloon, or a device that empties your stomach, DO the research first.  These tools are not permanent, and that is what I am seeking at this time.  I hope to get a handle on my addiction to food, rather than doing a more permanent change to my tummy, at least, at this time.  I was hoping that with counseling, and attending OA, I can possibly beat this thing, and get a start with a device to help me initially.  I think all of us can regain, and that is the thing we work with, and need help with, the most.

Good luck...

 t.

Supergirl7877
on 6/9/14 4:42 am
Topic: RE: Is 100 pound weight loss possible without surgery?

It is possible to lose 100 lbs without surgery!  I did it.  I am down 160 lbs and have maintained that loss for 3+ years. The problem, in my opinion, is not losing the weight.  It is in maintaining the loss.  I think we’re all pretty much experts on losing it; it’s that component of long term maintenance that is hard to achieve.  I know that someone will chime in that only 4 or 5% of “natural losers” maintain their weight loss (and they will never tell you what study they get the number from) but to that I say this:  There is NOTHING so special about me that made me more capable to lose this weight and maintain than anyone else.  I had to check all my bull**** at the door and get real about what I was doing to myself, how hard I was really working, and face why I had failed so many times.  There is NOTHING so special about me that isn’t within each and every one of us.

 

For ME the decision to lose weight without surgery came from watching family members get WLS and a few years later begin struggling with their weight again.  I decided that whatever LIFE LONG changes I would need to make with surgery I would make without surgery.  I figure out the reasons why I ate, took inventory of all my excuses and executed a plan.  This is the same work that has to be done with WLS…it has been VERY hard work.  I continue to maintain the diet and exercise regimen that I used to lose weight.  I consider many foods “drug foods” and I don’t partake in them.  If you watch the forums there are so many people with “Help!  I am gaining my weight back” posts…the work is the same and the maintenance remains the biggest obstacle.  Consistency has been the only thing that has worked for me.  There is no end to my “diet”, there are no “cheat days”, I have foods I will never touch to my lips again.

 

I am here and happy to support you in any way that I can!  I started at 300lbs at 5’3”…so we are very similar!

:)

arkloser
on 5/27/14 7:56 am
Topic: Is 100 pound weight loss possible without surgery?

After I woke up today, I became devastated after I’d weighed myself.  I was at 308 pounds, making my BMI 60.1,( I’m only 5’0” tall) making it a 6 pound increase from my last dr. office visit

a little over 5 weeks ago.  I had started eating more fruits and vegetables and drinking more water but everything was turned around this past weekend.  I went to several bbqs and picnics

with friends and family and spent most of Monday on the couch watching tv.

 

I thought I could lose weight on my own and avoid or at least delay getting wls.  This weekend was a setback.  I would give anything to lose at least 100 pounds without surgery.  I’ve attended

Weigh****cher groups before but most of the other women only had 20 or 30 pounds to lose

and many seemed to reach their goals in 5-6 months.  I’ve got a real serious amount I need to

lose.  Is it even possible to lose 100 pounds without surgery?  

 

I’d like to meet other who face similar weight loss challenges and hope to at least lose some of it without surgery.

 

Laura in Texas
on 12/1/13 3:39 am
Topic: RE: For the next person who tells me they can't...

You have deactivated so may never see this, but this post was trending on the main page so many people saw it pop up there. Good luck to you.

Laura in Texas

53 years old; 5'7" tall; HW: 339 (BMI=53); GW: 140 CW: 170 (BMI=27)

RNY: 09-17-08 Dr. Garth Davis

brachioplasty: 12-18-09 Dr. Wainwright; lbl/bl: 06-28-11 Dr. LoMonaco

"May your choices reflect your hopes and not your fears."

Cicerogirl, The PhD
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on 11/28/13 3:31 am - OH
Topic: RE: For the next person who tells me they can't...

No need to have anyone on any "side".  This isn't Junior High school.  I speak only for myself and stand behind what I say/write (including apologizing occasionally when necessary). 

FWIW, I am six years out and I have gone on record repeatedly to say that if I were making they decision now (the sleeve wasn't available 7 years ago), *I* would have the sleeve instead of the RNY because I never liked the idea of re-routing my intestines... but at age 45, with a lifetime and family history of morbid obesity, a BMI of 57, and numerous diet failures, RNY was my last option.  So you will never find me blindly defending RNY or ever pushing someone into having it.  If anything, you are far more likely to see me trying to convince them to be sure it is their only option.

Lora

14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained

You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.

Cicerogirl, The PhD
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on 11/28/13 3:24 am - OH
Topic: RE: For the next person who tells me they can't...

Yes, there were a couple of people who went off the deep end and questioned whether your post was genuine, and a couple of people (people who are newly out and may still be fearful about their decision) were defensive about the surgery, but the vast majority of us tried to help CALM your fears by letting you know that, wherever you got the info from, it wasn't accurate, and we supported you in believing that if your were that anxious (since the first approach was clearly not helpful) you weren't ready to have surgery. MOST of the people *****sponded were supportive and attempted to help.

Lora.

14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained

You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.

(deactivated member)
on 11/28/13 3:23 am
Topic: RE: For the next person who tells me they can't...

Now quick go tell everyone so you can have more people on your side! Hurry!

(deactivated member)
on 11/28/13 3:17 am
Topic: RE: For the next person who tells me they can't...

Lora, I'm not sure if your a forum cool girl or what, but actually when I expressed FEARS I had, all that were very possible occurrences, expressed that I was scared out of my mind, many of you offered nothing but rude comments, suggested I was faking being fat or eligible for surgery and many were defensive of the surgery. If it works, it should speak for itself, not have a bunch of snarky, snide people behind it. You are right, there were like 2 people who were kind and encouraging in those posts. And if I observe disgusting bullying behavior I can call it out, and if someone wants to delete it, then ill go cry in the forum corner?  I guess.  I actually stated a few times the fears I had, that I have anxiety which at the time was very high, and I asked for proper responses. I don't need people saying rude things and accusing me of faking. Lol it's so stupid. And it goes to show some of you are just staplers, and have nothing better to do but chime in and speak your big forum words. I found very few people on this forum to be encouraging, instead you are like die hards and any naysayers better watch their forum backs because omg the former fat girls stick together and run those mouths. What ever! No one cares. 

Cicerogirl, The PhD
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on 11/28/13 3:14 am, edited 11/28/13 3:14 am - OH
Topic: RE: For the next person who tells me they can't...

I agree with everything you wrote here.  Many people DO have surgery before they try everything else, and many people DO regain weight because they go back to eating the same way they did before surgery, and I absolutely believe that surgery should be a last resort. Many people DO have surgery because they believe it will be easier than trying to change their life on their own (and, in some ways, it is).  Many people who have it are not psychologically ready or not committed to changing their behavior.

This post shows that you have given serious thought to the issue, and I wish you all the best in your effort to lose and keep he weight off without the surgery.

I do, however, think you owe an apology to the people that you just called "psychos" and "disgusting" earlier in this thread simply because you apparently didn't get the kind of responses you wanted on the other thread.  People can see the two posts of your that the moderators deleted on that thread if they look at your latest posts... and, if they do, they will see that you were the one whose posts were objectionable. Everyone there just tried to tell you that your information wasn't accurate, and most of us supported you in your feeling that surgery was probably not right for you at this time because of your anxiety.

Lora

14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained

You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.

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