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choose2inspire
on 4/26/10 7:43 am
Topic: Greetings
Hello all,

What a supportive group you are! 

I've been lurking for some time on various boards, and wanted to introduce myself/tell my story.

I've had a LapBand for 7 years.  I had it revised (to a LapBand) 2 years ago after a major slippage.  For a while now, the port has been causing me pain.  I have a surgery date of May 14 to remove the Band.  Finally.  It has been a battle with my insurance company, but it looks set now.  :)

My surgeon thinks I'm nuts.  He wants to revise me to RNY.  I have been back and forth about this....but I think I have to get my other health issues sorted before I do something like that.  I was just diagnosed with diabetes, I've got PCOS, and we're figuring out if/what kind of autoimmune disease I have.  I am also having ferritin/EPO shots to build my iron and hemoglobin levels because they're so low that no surgeon will operate right now.  I have had 2 Drs tell me that the iron deficiency might be caused by the Band - the hematologist and the endocrinologist.  My surgeon says that's ridiculous, it's just not the case.  I actually like my surgeon, despite his strong bias for RNY.  But when I go through the classes with 8 other patients who are ready for RNY....and these classes are held biweekly.....it does make me wonder about the 'bariatric mill' phenomenon.

I have never lost weight with the Band.  In fact, I have no restriction at all.  I can easily polish off a 12 ounce ribeye with fixin's if I choose.  My surgeon tells me I'll gain weight if I have the Band out without revising to RNY.  I don't believe him.  I *HAVE* lost weight once during this journey, and that was when I was using hCG coupled with a VLCD.  I got down to 165 and felt great.  Of course I had more to lose, but that was a great place to be.  Unfortuantely I gained it all back.  I'm back at 210, which is close to where I started!

I am now on a few different medications, one of which is a diabetes drug that helps curb appetite as well.  In the past week I have lost about 5 pounds by eating low carb, high protein.  Im happy with those results.  In fact, when I look at the successful weight loss patients as they maintain their losses, the common theme I notice is precisely that: low carbs, high protein.  So I'm wondering if this is the right decision: to have the problematic Band removed no mater how nuts my surgeon things I am, and to continue working at making lifestyle changes.  These lifestyle changes are the same ones I'd have to make with or without RNY in order to maintain a healthy lifestyle and weight loss. 

Sorry for the brain dump - I just wanted to get it all out there for any feedback, comments, or just a 'hey, nice to meet ya!' response.  :)  I am inspired by those of you posting about your non-surgical losses and they way you're working every day to maintain and improve your health.  In the long run, whether you lose the weight with WLS or without, the changes we make are the same, aren't they? 

A
(deactivated member)
on 4/26/10 7:31 am - West Central FL☼RIDA , FL
Topic: RE: i'm new to this part!!
Sorry for the late reply but just wanted to throw in my BEST WISHES.......I know you can do it.
WW is a good plan...daily tracking is the thing that helped me through my journey (and measuring too because I had no idea how much 4 oz of chicken really was.....)

Stick around, post often and let us share in your many victories to come.
A B
on 4/26/10 7:13 am - NM
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on 4/26/10 5:02 am - West Central FL☼RIDA , FL
Topic: RE: Avoid martyrdom.
I hate a "know-it-all" and especially so when I get trapped by one at a gathering.
(deactivated member)
on 4/26/10 4:43 am - West Central FL☼RIDA , FL
Topic: RE: What are you celebrating and proud of? Monday
Good Golly Miss Molly....so happy for you about the lb gone. 
It's all about calories in and calories out (burned)...you obviously worked out hard and burned more than you consumed - ergo the weight lose.  COOL!!
Molly S.
on 4/26/10 4:20 am - Chicago, IL
Topic: RE: What are you celebrating and proud of? Monday
Hello,

I am proud that I made it to gym on a Monday!!  and I had a great workout to boot. I am also proud I lost one pound last week despite a rough eating week and lastly, I exercised 6 days last week. 

       HW 611  Pre-opW 580   LW 302  GW 238         
              

Molly S.
on 4/26/10 4:16 am - Chicago, IL
Topic: Avoid martyrdom.
Avoid martyrdom.

How many times have you sat down with friends at a dinner party for a lovely meal and someone, who has never had a weight problem, goes on and on about how they can't eat this or that because they are on a diet? As a result, at least some people at the table felt self conscious about filling their plate and enjoying their meal. Not only did the "dieter" spoil the meal, but they openly insulted the host by judging the dinner unfit to eat.

The middle of a dinner party is not the best time to share your personal choices and to become a martyr for your new lifestyle. You can take your smaller portions and not draw attention to them. If someone asks you why you took so little, just say you want to sample everything, and then change the subject. Be a rounded conversationalist, and people will remember the interesting person they sat next to as opposed to the person who made them feel bad about themselves.

Action for the day: Reflect on ways to be interesting around people instead of focusing everyone's attention on your food choices.
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       HW 611  Pre-opW 580   LW 302  GW 238         
              

gloop
on 4/26/10 2:39 am
Topic: RE: i'm new to this part!!
Hi AB,
I'm in a similar situation as you.  I was scheduled to have RNY on March 31 but it got postponed so now I'm trying to lose my weight without surgery.  I've lost 3 lbs in 3 weeks.  It's not easy but it's possible.  Whatever you decide to try make sure it's something you can sustain for the rest of your life, something you are comfortable with and something that's going to be a PERMANENT lifestyle change.  To borrow a quote from someone "I'm training for maintaining"  it really is all about lifestyle choices.  Change is not easy but if you are motivated enough it can be done.  Be patient and forgiving with yourself and remember slow and steady wins the race.
        
I'm in the process of changing my diet, relationship with food and my lifestyle.  I'm in training for maintaining.
(deactivated member)
on 4/26/10 1:51 am - West Central FL☼RIDA , FL
Topic: RE: What are you celebrating and proud of? Weekend Edition
WAHOOOOO    walking for 4 hours is awesome.  Do you use a pedometer?  I bet you past the 10,000 steps mark.
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