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on 5/11/10 8:11 pm - Rochester, NY
on 5/11/10 8:11 pm - Rochester, NY
Topic: RE: What Are You Hungry For? Hint: It's Not Food
Oh, I bought that book while I was on vacation but haven't started it yet....gave it to my daughter and she loved it! I'll look forward to seeing this show....not today, cause I won't be home but will DVR it. I've read other books of hers and always enjoy her point of view. Thanks for the reminder!
I had heard the prompt for Oprah's show today being, "Why Oprah will never go on another diet", but didn't realize she would have Geneen Roth on.
I had heard the prompt for Oprah's show today being, "Why Oprah will never go on another diet", but didn't realize she would have Geneen Roth on.
(deactivated member)
on 5/11/10 8:04 pm - Rochester, NY
on 5/11/10 8:04 pm - Rochester, NY
Topic: RE: What are you celebrating and proud of? Tuesday
I fianlly made it to my water aerobics class today! Didn't get there all last week with my mom and brother in the hospital and me not feeling well. Unfortunately it will be the only day I get there this week too, but I made it!
Topic: single parenthood and exercise
so my schedule is hectic been having trouble finding time for exercise..so tonight I am like Ok kids Momma needs to exercise..put on the dvd..it is only 30 mins
so the 7 yr old sits there, Mom u r doing it wrong, watch their feet
then the 20 month decides to to throw herself right at me feet and screams and cries..oh ya she did
so i just kept going and ignored the nonsense, wasn't the best workout but it was 30mins of moving..
I want to workout so much and by the time i finish the basics, dinner, clean up, laundry, make lunches etc..or if it is soccer night forget it..there is just nothing left except sleep
can'teven get up early cuz the baby is still waking up twice a night and if she hears me before 6am she wakes up and says Momma , wake up*lol*
so i work fulltime monday - friday and using my lunch hours when I can and the weekends are crazy, always walkign but it is just not enuf..
sorry just need to share my frustration
so the 7 yr old sits there, Mom u r doing it wrong, watch their feet
then the 20 month decides to to throw herself right at me feet and screams and cries..oh ya she did
so i just kept going and ignored the nonsense, wasn't the best workout but it was 30mins of moving..
I want to workout so much and by the time i finish the basics, dinner, clean up, laundry, make lunches etc..or if it is soccer night forget it..there is just nothing left except sleep
can'teven get up early cuz the baby is still waking up twice a night and if she hears me before 6am she wakes up and says Momma , wake up*lol*
so i work fulltime monday - friday and using my lunch hours when I can and the weekends are crazy, always walkign but it is just not enuf..
sorry just need to share my frustration
started this process back in 2007/2008 denied MGB, denied for Barix, put on hold (BMI was too high for pilot phase)at St.joe's and since moved to Windsor and had to start again, December, 2009 referral sent from GP...April 5 and 8, 2010 1st appt at Windsor clinic with nurse and doc
April 16, 2010 sleep clinic, April 27 echo
May 3,2010 Orientation at Met hospital--,
SURGERY booked Oct.20.2010
April 16, 2010 sleep clinic, April 27 echo
May 3,2010 Orientation at Met hospital--,
SURGERY booked Oct.20.2010
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on 5/11/10 9:27 am, edited 5/11/10 11:09 am - West Central FL☼RIDA , FL
on 5/11/10 9:27 am, edited 5/11/10 11:09 am - West Central FL☼RIDA , FL
Topic: What are you celebrating and proud of? Tuesday
Sorry to start this so late in the day......
What are you celebrating and proud of?
Me, I'm proud I pushed myself to walk today and I mean I had to really push myself. I had a mental war going on. I stuck between a rock and a hard place with exercise right now....I have to do it but it makes me swell (because I'm post-op from plastic surgery). UGH...vicious cycle.
I'm also proud I used my Wii Fit Plus for the first time.....I liked it...it was fun!
So I did a 45 min cardio walk in the morning and then did 30 mins with the Wii.
How about you, what are you celebrating or proud of?
What are you celebrating and proud of?
Me, I'm proud I pushed myself to walk today and I mean I had to really push myself. I had a mental war going on. I stuck between a rock and a hard place with exercise right now....I have to do it but it makes me swell (because I'm post-op from plastic surgery). UGH...vicious cycle.
I'm also proud I used my Wii Fit Plus for the first time.....I liked it...it was fun!
So I did a 45 min cardio walk in the morning and then did 30 mins with the Wii.
How about you, what are you celebrating or proud of?
(deactivated member)
on 5/11/10 9:22 am - West Central FL☼RIDA , FL
on 5/11/10 9:22 am - West Central FL☼RIDA , FL
Topic: What Are You Hungry For? Hint: It's Not Food
On Oprah tomorrow (Weds) she is discussing this topic.....
www.oprah.com/health/Geneen-Roth-Talks-to-Oprah-About-Women- Food-And-God
Oprah Talks to Author Geneen Roth
A provocative new book reveals the self-defeating truth about dieting, while lighting the path to a full and healthy life. Says Oprah, "This book is an opportunity to finally end the war with weight and unlock the door to freedom."
When I first read Geneen Roth's Women, Food and God—in one big gulp—I knew I'd found something profound. I don't like the term food addict, but I realize I've been one, and it has taken me years to learn (and relearn) that the choices we make about what we put in our mouths are only stand-ins for the beliefs we carry in our minds and our hearts. So as I read Geneen's book, I recognized such a basic truth—and one that I seem to need to be reminded about time and time again: A lot of us use food as a drug—to hide from our feelings, to anesthetize ourselves, to escape. And I really wanted to talk to Geneen about this, because she seems to understand better than anybody else how we torture ourselves over a number on a scale or a size on a dress when we'd be better off putting our energy into loving and understanding our real selves. Here's a piece of our conversation:
Oprah: I think this book could have been called Women, Shopping and God, or Women, Meth and God, or Women, Gambling and God, since food is just one of the things we use to deny our own worthiness—for love, for godliness, for peace. So why is understanding our obsession with weight the key to finally losing it?
Geneen Roth: A lot of people come to me and say they just want to lose the weight. And they want to get it over with, and they want the problem to go away, and they want to wake up thin tomorrow. But they don't really want to look at the beliefs that are fueling the whole obsession or, really, their relationships to themselves, to their families, to their lives. They don't really want to look.
What happens is that people end up losing weight ten, 20, 30, 50 times in their lives. They just endlessly do it, because they think endless dieting is a way to get a handle on their problem. But even if they get a handle on their dieting, just losing weight is not the point.
Unless you really see what your core beliefs are, what's making you overeat—beliefs like "I'm damaged; I don't deserve this; love is not for me; this will never work out; God is a ruse; goodness is not for me; I'll always be separated from what I love"—and until you name those beliefs, they will shape your life willy-nilly. You'll just keep on acting them out by punishing yourself with food. But if you can finally get to understanding the beliefs underneath, you can learn how to live.
Oprah: You wrote Women, Food and God because you wanted women to—
GR: I wanted women to, first of all, stop thinking about their "problems with food" as the biggest curse in their lives. It's the issues underneath the "problems with food" that need to be dealt with. I also wrote it because I wanted to share the knowledge that using food as the doorway to understanding yourself can lead to unimaginable beauty and openness and a kind of awakening. Most people don't know that.
I think we all have a hunger that's hard to name. A lot of people who come to my retreats have never named it before, or else they've named it in church, but they can't actually see the connection between what they're doing with food and this yearning. I call it "the flame" that they have: They yearn for big answers to live a big life. But they have to start with the most basic fears.
Oprah: And this book is the place to start. It's an opportunity, a chance for all of us who have carried the curse of weight, the burden of weight, the struggle of weight to realize that understanding the roots of that struggle can lead to something richer, deeper, and more profound. I'm telling everyone to read it now!
www.oprah.com/health/Geneen-Roth-Talks-to-Oprah-About-Women- Food-And-God
Oprah Talks to Author Geneen Roth
A provocative new book reveals the self-defeating truth about dieting, while lighting the path to a full and healthy life. Says Oprah, "This book is an opportunity to finally end the war with weight and unlock the door to freedom."
When I first read Geneen Roth's Women, Food and God—in one big gulp—I knew I'd found something profound. I don't like the term food addict, but I realize I've been one, and it has taken me years to learn (and relearn) that the choices we make about what we put in our mouths are only stand-ins for the beliefs we carry in our minds and our hearts. So as I read Geneen's book, I recognized such a basic truth—and one that I seem to need to be reminded about time and time again: A lot of us use food as a drug—to hide from our feelings, to anesthetize ourselves, to escape. And I really wanted to talk to Geneen about this, because she seems to understand better than anybody else how we torture ourselves over a number on a scale or a size on a dress when we'd be better off putting our energy into loving and understanding our real selves. Here's a piece of our conversation:
Oprah: I think this book could have been called Women, Shopping and God, or Women, Meth and God, or Women, Gambling and God, since food is just one of the things we use to deny our own worthiness—for love, for godliness, for peace. So why is understanding our obsession with weight the key to finally losing it?
Geneen Roth: A lot of people come to me and say they just want to lose the weight. And they want to get it over with, and they want the problem to go away, and they want to wake up thin tomorrow. But they don't really want to look at the beliefs that are fueling the whole obsession or, really, their relationships to themselves, to their families, to their lives. They don't really want to look.
What happens is that people end up losing weight ten, 20, 30, 50 times in their lives. They just endlessly do it, because they think endless dieting is a way to get a handle on their problem. But even if they get a handle on their dieting, just losing weight is not the point.
Unless you really see what your core beliefs are, what's making you overeat—beliefs like "I'm damaged; I don't deserve this; love is not for me; this will never work out; God is a ruse; goodness is not for me; I'll always be separated from what I love"—and until you name those beliefs, they will shape your life willy-nilly. You'll just keep on acting them out by punishing yourself with food. But if you can finally get to understanding the beliefs underneath, you can learn how to live.
Oprah: You wrote Women, Food and God because you wanted women to—
GR: I wanted women to, first of all, stop thinking about their "problems with food" as the biggest curse in their lives. It's the issues underneath the "problems with food" that need to be dealt with. I also wrote it because I wanted to share the knowledge that using food as the doorway to understanding yourself can lead to unimaginable beauty and openness and a kind of awakening. Most people don't know that.
I think we all have a hunger that's hard to name. A lot of people who come to my retreats have never named it before, or else they've named it in church, but they can't actually see the connection between what they're doing with food and this yearning. I call it "the flame" that they have: They yearn for big answers to live a big life. But they have to start with the most basic fears.
Oprah: And this book is the place to start. It's an opportunity, a chance for all of us who have carried the curse of weight, the burden of weight, the struggle of weight to realize that understanding the roots of that struggle can lead to something richer, deeper, and more profound. I'm telling everyone to read it now!
(deactivated member)
on 5/11/10 9:21 am - West Central FL☼RIDA , FL
on 5/11/10 9:21 am - West Central FL☼RIDA , FL
Topic: RE: WW Weigh-In #2
Congratulations! Almost 12 lb in 2 weeks. WAHOO!!!!!!!!!!!!
FYI - if I eat carbs like pasta, rice, bread, potatoes I will not lose any weight even if I stay within my calorie/points range. My body just doesn't break it down easily. Oatmeal, Bulgur wheat I'm ok with...isn't that odd.
Anyhow just wanted to say well done and stick with it. Can't wait to hear about your week 3.
TTFN
Ruth
FYI - if I eat carbs like pasta, rice, bread, potatoes I will not lose any weight even if I stay within my calorie/points range. My body just doesn't break it down easily. Oatmeal, Bulgur wheat I'm ok with...isn't that odd.
Anyhow just wanted to say well done and stick with it. Can't wait to hear about your week 3.
TTFN
Ruth
Topic: RE: WW Weigh-In #2
that's really great!! i think you lost .8 because you lost so much the first week, your body had to balance back out, but .8 is a very respectable loss and i'm very happy that you are doing so great!!
Topic: RE: hello
Thank you everyone!! I am glad to be back....I really missed the interaction with people that are familar with weight issues, and to have a place I can come to for help and support. Thank you and again I am really happy to be back!!
Trisha Jane
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on 5/10/10 1:04 pm - Rochester, NY
on 5/10/10 1:04 pm - Rochester, NY