What are/were your reason(s) for losing weight?

(deactivated member)
on 1/2/09 12:13 pm, edited 1/2/09 12:48 pm

Beautiful loser's reply on Proud Mary's post got me thinking.  What are/were your reason(s) for losing weight?
I will admit that mine was mostly (or all) vanity.  I had no comorbidities; I was active but I HATED how I looked and hated how I FELT because of how I looked.  I wanted to feel good about myself and it was impossible when I was MO so I started my journey by just taking care of myself and trying to feel good about myself.
I'm aware that feeling good about oneself comes from within. (in fact, the best I ever felt about myself was about 60 pounds heavier than I am now.  I think the positive self-esteem helped me get to continue to my goal).
I believe that MO individuals can be attractive and love themselves....but I couldn't.  Bottom line, we live in a society that values looks.  I work at an organization that values youth and looks.  As much as I don't want to live my life according to what is valued by others (e.g., society), I have to live in society and living as a normal weight person in our society is far better FOR ME than living as a MO person.
Being a normal weight didn't make me happy but it sure doesn't hurt.  The self-esteem I gained from caring about myself enough to lose weight and look better is what made me happy. And the PS didn't hurt...lol
Am I the only vain person?  Does everyone else lose weight for health reasons?

BTW, this site is SOOOOOOOOOOOOO slow now!!  Takes 4EVER to type and/or post and/or edit something (no wonder I stopped posting)!  I thought it was my computer but I don't have this problem on other sites.  

mwy
on 1/2/09 12:52 pm
The reason that I gained weight was because of a severe case of Polycystic Ovary Syndrome which made me highly sensitive to carbohydrates and I gained a hundred pounds in a year.  Once they were able to find a diagnosis, I couldn't wait to find the right diet for my condition.  It took me a long time, but I had to lose the weight because the big ol boobs and belly were starting to curve my back. 

So even though I did it for medical reasons, I ain't gonna lie, of course there was vanity involved.  I didn't recognize myself fat and I hated the person I had become.  And as far as the plastic surgery, it was definitely "reconstructive".  But who knew that a surgeon could get this body out of what I gave him to work with?

I don't consider myself a body obsessed person, but it's a nice little side affect that removing all of that fat and skin show's off my hard work in the exercise department! Wink But I ain't telling you nothin' you don't already know!

Mary
(deactivated member)
on 1/2/09 1:05 pm
You look fab, my dear!  I'm glad you finally found what worked for you.  You and Dr. DT done good!!
mwy
on 1/2/09 1:21 pm
Thank you dawlink...I do believe that we have let our mutual admiration society spill over into the board.  By the way, you look even MORE fab, so there! 3 Kisses 

Mary
(deactivated member)
on 1/2/09 1:37 pm
Girlfriend, I'm not the only member of the Society for Admiration of Mary; you have LOTS of admirers on OH!  You give great advice, keep people in line, use cute emoticons and most importantly, you'ze funny!!
mwy
on 1/2/09 1:43 pm
Ha, you must be thinking of our old days back on the Plastic Surgery Forum.  We sure did have a lot of fun on the trashy side of OH!

Mary
HollyRachel
on 1/2/09 1:41 pm

My reasons are strictly for my heath.  Well of course we all want to look slim and beautiful, but ya can't have that without your health!

My obgyn told me if I don't lose wieght I'm going to be in a lot of pain soon and in a wheel chair by the age of 60.  That is what brought me to this board.  Although the past few years I have gotten some comorbities, ashtma, high cholestrol, checking on my bp, doctor thinks i might have sleep apnea, but I won't take the tests, and I have gotten tests done and I have nerve damage in my leg but can't figure out why (or doc doesn't want to say).  At one point a doc said I was insulin resistant, but I don't go to him any more, and this doc hasn't said anything.  I'm sure there's more that I'm missing.   I have also noticed I'm "worried" all the time, I live my life in fear of dying, and living.   It just really sucks!

When I'm thinner I act totally different.  I'm full of live and adventure instead of hiding behine anything in front of me.  I thrive on spontenaiety, and that is something I haven't been able to do in a while.  I yearn for it, probably part of my problem when depression hits.  I'm bored with my life! 

Wow...now doesn't this just sound so cheery!lol  I'm in such a cranky mood today!

BTW, glad to see you back girl.  I've been wondering where you have disappeared to.  I miss seeing you around. 

(deactivated member)
on 1/2/09 2:02 pm
Holly:
I know what you mean about nothing being important when don't have your health.  That wasn't my reason 5 years ago but it's certainly an issue for me now and my self-esteem has plummeted.  I'm working on it because I want to get back to the happy, spontaneous, lovin' life person I was.
I'm cheering you on!
Kim
StacyAnn07
on 1/2/09 1:43 pm - Del City, OK
I have about a million reasons number one being my health but right in line next to that is my son. I need to be the best I can be for him and being an obese mom isn't at all the life I want for him!

Stac
    
(deactivated member)
on 1/2/09 2:06 pm
Stac:
Doing it for your son is a great reason....and motivator!  You're on the right track.
Best wishes for continued success,
Kim
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