Yet another doctor visit! lol
So UGLEE LORI...what exactly is it aboutcha that is just so hideous that you have to accept?
Do you have big buck teeth that are rotting as we speak? Is your hair so thin you can see your scalp?
Do you have zitz on your whole face that take a away from your lovely crossed eyes?
Does your unabrow put a Neanderthal to shame? Do the warts on your big nose help with the aerodynamics on your broom?
If you can honestly say that you have two or more of these afflictions then I might accept your "acceptance", otherwise you may have just said "copout" instead. Beautiful is an attitude that needs to be amplified, and you are not willing to put in the work it takes to see that in yourself! And don't tell me there's no point to it cuz I WILL slap you!!! I think that Jon may be part of your problem. I have a feeling that he would make Pamela Anderson feel like a bag lady!
I say you need to start practicing being confident in your looks and then it becomes reality. Or is it that you are enjoying wallowing in self pity at this moment in your life?
I'm shuttin' up now,
Mary
Do you have big buck teeth that are rotting as we speak? Is your hair so thin you can see your scalp?
Do you have zitz on your whole face that take a away from your lovely crossed eyes?
Does your unabrow put a Neanderthal to shame? Do the warts on your big nose help with the aerodynamics on your broom?
If you can honestly say that you have two or more of these afflictions then I might accept your "acceptance", otherwise you may have just said "copout" instead. Beautiful is an attitude that needs to be amplified, and you are not willing to put in the work it takes to see that in yourself! And don't tell me there's no point to it cuz I WILL slap you!!! I think that Jon may be part of your problem. I have a feeling that he would make Pamela Anderson feel like a bag lady!
I say you need to start practicing being confident in your looks and then it becomes reality. Or is it that you are enjoying wallowing in self pity at this moment in your life?
I'm shuttin' up now,
Mary
I think you missed the point. My point is... how everyone feels about themselves, or how everyone see's themselves, is relative to their outlook and place in life.
You can take that margin for relativity and turn it to your favor. It's like, if you act the part, you will become the charector.
Regardless of what you look like, it's all on the top floor.. (in your head) and if you aren't your #1 fan, you are going to perpetuate a cycle of negativity and dissapointments in your life, not to mention that you will not be very pleasant to be around.
Life doesn't stop because you are fat, and it doesn't get better because you are skinny!
Life is happening now, not tomorrow, or 10 pounds from now.
You can take that margin for relativity and turn it to your favor. It's like, if you act the part, you will become the charector.
Regardless of what you look like, it's all on the top floor.. (in your head) and if you aren't your #1 fan, you are going to perpetuate a cycle of negativity and dissapointments in your life, not to mention that you will not be very pleasant to be around.
Life doesn't stop because you are fat, and it doesn't get better because you are skinny!
Life is happening now, not tomorrow, or 10 pounds from now.
Snugglepotomus
I understand, Maria.. thank you. That was my weird way of paying you a compliment! :)
I think I just had a bad ego weekend! LOL
you're right! It all starts with the mind and works it's way down and I've used that very same technique in business... I'd go after a deal like I already had it, and before ya know it.. it was mine! Ok.. there are other times the claws came out too, but I still got the deal! lol After a while, we all get burnout and we use whatever works... so today I'm up, well rested from that long ass drive, showered, perfumed and powdered and waiting for my workout clothes to dry.. and I'm off with my head up.
I still would LOVE to look like you though!!! LOLOL
I think I just had a bad ego weekend! LOL
you're right! It all starts with the mind and works it's way down and I've used that very same technique in business... I'd go after a deal like I already had it, and before ya know it.. it was mine! Ok.. there are other times the claws came out too, but I still got the deal! lol After a while, we all get burnout and we use whatever works... so today I'm up, well rested from that long ass drive, showered, perfumed and powdered and waiting for my workout clothes to dry.. and I'm off with my head up.
I still would LOVE to look like you though!!! LOLOL
Hahaha.. see.. I like gray hair too! One of my sisters has a bunch of gray and the others are always telling her to get rid of it.. but I really like it on her. See.. now she's tough... she says "too bad and does as she pleases!
Mine came in gray at the temples and I just let it go the length of my hair.. I liked it.. sorta bride of frankenstein thing.. lol But.. let myself get talked into getting rid if it.. so Friday morning I was wrangling an appointment at my old hairdresser's down in florida and now.. it's just this reddish something.. LOL
True dat.. the fat/ugly thing.. I had a sister who would always tell me I was fat AND ugly.. never were they seperate.
Mine came in gray at the temples and I just let it go the length of my hair.. I liked it.. sorta bride of frankenstein thing.. lol But.. let myself get talked into getting rid if it.. so Friday morning I was wrangling an appointment at my old hairdresser's down in florida and now.. it's just this reddish something.. LOL
True dat.. the fat/ugly thing.. I had a sister who would always tell me I was fat AND ugly.. never were they seperate.
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