What Have You Done Today to Make You Feel Proud?

Well Lori, NO WONDER you don't know how to flirt.  Gay men may be fun to run with, but it ain't like you're going to learn how to "work your wiles" hangin' with them.  I use to start off every conversation with...Hey good lookin', whether the guy was butt uglee or not.  It throws them off their game and strokes their ego at the same time.  And you find out a lot about how big that ego just might be.

He's too attractive for you?  Excuse me girlee but that's some wrong thinking if I've ever heard it.  You need to raise your standards.  The only time a man is too attractive is if he spends more time looking in the mirror at himself than you do!

Now younger is something different altogether.  You don't want to have to raise one, but breastfeeding is fun!

Mary

"The only time a man is too attractive is if he spends more time looking in the mirror at himself than you do!"

Hate to say this... but he definitely does.. and he likes saying how attractive he is.... blah.

"Now younger is something different altogether.  You don't want to have to raise one, but breasfeeding is fun!"

L M F A O !  ROFLMFAO!!

I always liked older men  - my mantra being "just because there's a little snow on the roof don't mean there ain't no fire in the furnace".  The only problem is now that I'm older.. most of 'em are already dead!

Um, I used to like older men too until I slept with a younger man and now I can't imagine being with an older man.  LOL

Let me just say in defense of older men.  Mine is older than me and when I was younger, I did good to keep up with him.  After thirty two years of being together...We still havin' a whole lot of fun!  You just have to find the 'right' older man.  And I thank God for him cuz when I gained over a hundred pounds in one year because of the PCOS, and his fine young wife turned into a fat blob, he never once treated me any differently.  I'm not so sure I could say that about the younger guys I dated.

Young is great for wild monkey sex, but for commitment, it would have to be the 'right' young guy!

Mary

I already told you, you found the perfect man!   Robert is what I'd want if I wanted commitment (or even if I didn't but he's already taken;-).  I guess I just wanna have fun and if the right guy comes along, even better!

I have to agree.

I was completely hot at 17 years old when I met Jon.  He was never really good in the affection department, but I have to say he didn't treat me like less of a person at 300 lbs.  He's always been kind... and I don't think I would have had that with a guy my age.. no way. 

Don't knock the younger men until ya try em there Lori.  I use to be just like you, my ex husband is eleven years older than me.  I guess I wanted to make sure I was "taken care of" so to speak.  I think it hits ya when you least expect it.  My husband was my best friend for about a year.  He was my younger brother, one who I thought it would be totally wrong to have a relationship with less sleep with!  My god he had no kids, no commitments besides the Navy, no ex wives...ZILCH!  Then...sleeping with him (eight years younger) was the best thing I ever did! :)  We were married six months later.

I say go for the younger guys, they are easier to train to your liking. :) 

Ahhhhh.. I'm not knocking 'em... I'm just saying it's not for me.  It's hard to find patience in a younger man.. and I need to be with someone who's got a LIFETIME of patience, baby!!  LOL

Lor...I am not all that, AND I AM happily married....buttttt, at this age, i am shocked at the attention i get from 30 something guys!!!!!

It is a GIFT from God, cuz our human side feels done, used up, but I am telling you, it would be so easy.   YOU are in the perfect position to give it a whirl.

C'mon...real men know real wimmin when they sees 'em! Looks are only 1/10 of the total package. I've talked to you on the phone/seen your pic...you got a smoky voice, you're smart, you are meticulous about yourself, you got thick hair with which to cover a lap. You. Are. Hot.

Um, Neecee....I saw your Vegas pic and you ARE ALL THAT.  No wonder the 30 something guy**** on you cuz...You. Are. Hot. Too!!