What Have You Done Today to Make You Feel Proud?
So I'm thinking that the 'set' she's talking about has nothing to do with boobs! Get my drift? More like the 'set' it requires to have more surgery.
If that's the case, you and I and Trixie could pose as men!
Mary
on 9/8/08 11:59 am
Dear lord, I hope she wasn't looking at the pre-surgery photos. Ain't nothin' close to "normal" or "major" about that....well maybe MAJORLY UGLY and HIDEOUS!!!
Mary.... stress.. perceived or not has a lot to do with this too. I know a lot of people don't subscribe to this way of thinking but I know first hand that any interruption in my daily life will result in a fluid up or weight gain.. especially around the middle.
I lose better when sedated... but I like the dayem things too much so I try not to take them. Could the stress that you went through last week (yes.. even a simple power out) be a contributing factor to the fluid retention?
Well well well, let me see if I can 'splain sumpn. After talking to a doctor when I was little about my family life, and then doing much research on the subject for my own situation, I've learned not to let things that are out of my control stress me. I "mostly" try to just go with the flow. I've also learned that getting upset over something never solved anything, but dealing with things head on and truthfully does. So once that electricity came back on, I let it go. Not to say that I wouldn't have killed for a few words with a therapist BEFORE the storm, but I've practiced talking masself off the ledge for a long time now, so it's all good.
I'm pretty much blaming this on way too much sodium. Well, unless I'm sleep eating and don't know it!
Mary
I'm proud that I stuck to the plan of backing off the gym for 2 weeks. I made it through the 2 weeks and today.. lemme tell ya.. I couldn't get my heartrate DOWN instead of up.
Ok.. here's something that happened that I'm not proud of.. but.. hell.. it works for me!
I actually got PROPOSITIONED by a hot, 38 year old guy! This guy knew me at 300 lbs... so I'm a tad shocked. I guess I was being kinda obtuse during the conversation.. zooooooooom right over my head .............. but he managed to make himself perfectly clear without being an asshole! Omg.. I had no clue! I've known this person for about 5 years and I thought all the flirting was just him being a salesman. I swear.. you could have heard a pin drop as I looked around to see if he was really speaking with someone else and I just happened to be in the room. I laughed .. made a dumb joke of it. I'm severely out of practice.
So I may not be proud, but I did learn that I'm still female (who knew) ..
oh.. and I stutter. lol (red faced)
Now listen here. If you need some help gettin' back in the groove of gettin' your groove on...talk to Kimmie. She has a BT yanno? I personally would have to think back to the 70's, so I'm thinking you need someone more current. But boy, back in the day...
Mary
Well.. there's no question.... I feel like a complete idiot that it had to be spelled out for me. For the life of me I can't figure out why this guy would lower his standards.. I know he isn't desperate! He's far too attractive for me. Besides.. he's way too young for me. It just feels nice that someone noticed that I'm a female.. that's all. :)
on 9/8/08 8:22 am
Now, let me tell you sumthin'..... He is NOT too young for you and he is NOT lowering his standards...and he isn't desperate. You need to start embracing your fabulousness!! Don't go trying to talk him out of his interest in you. I tried to do that in the past too and it's not attractive.
Go for it, girl! It's FUN.