Lori

Stay. **** happens,  You misread my intent, but I respect you're still feeling hurt.  Don't take a mistake out on others.  Block me if you need to, but you are a valued member. Gosh, I am shocked about this, I really saw my response as supportive.  But I also didn't read it as if you were in a really bad space...just contemplative.... The Snickers stuff happened, unfortunately.  Like I said, I know I reply out of context by responding in recent posts.   It was an honest mistake. Come on.  Stay.

Eh, I started the Snickers thing. I had actually clicked on that post and read what you responded first before I read her post...I sometimes do that...so I went and read your blog, responded to the snicker thing. Had something go on here at work and when I came back it was deleted! So I didn't even get a chance to respond about her post in general.

I think we're one big dysfunctional family.   Sometimes you just need to accept that.

I hope not to speak out of turn here, but this is something to think about. I am not even sure that this is 100% why LVS is considering leaving, lemmw say that up front.  I do not mean to speak for her. I also post on another board and a similar thing happened:  someone was seriously down about something in her life and the responders went off on another tangent.  It's too bad that those among us don't say...something like warning...i am super-sensiitve about this, but here goes kind of line. In all fairness, I think it might be hard for some to have winnowed out what she tried to say in that thread!  Lori...please don;t go.  If it too late and you deleted your profile...you can re-register with another e-mail addy.  I did that when I came to and missed everyone! There may be "other things here"  I know! I did that exact thing once and regretted it. I came back with a more expansive and different point of view when my feelings/anger/dander got off kilter!  NOT to say I am perfect, but it is hard with the written word to really understand what we are REALLY saying or asking in any given post.  We are not always gonna click with every lil person here.  

I concur with this because I didn't see anything in her now deleted post that made me think something was wrong.  I read positives in it, so I'm confused.

I must of missed something.  Don't leave us Lori, I LOVE reading your posts.  My husband even knows about you! hehe :)   Although I have no idea what's going on, but I do know your part of the "family" on here, and from the sounds of it no one wants you to go!

Your a grown woman so I won't say anymore, but I reallllly want you to stay.

If you decide not too, I wish you all the luck in the world, and my prayers will be with you.  Please contact me if you like, I would love to stay in touch.