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JerseyGirl1969
on 3/13/08 2:34 am - Milford, NJ

I won't have anyone question my boundaries. They have always and remain firm. Period.

Jupiter6
on 3/13/08 2:40 am - Near Media, Pa- South of Philly, NJ

Then try this one: you just said earlier in this thread that you weren't responding to this thread for the rest of the day. And yet, here you are. Boundaries: They aren't great. They're sliding as you speak. "Period."

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Christa :]
on 3/13/08 2:46 am - MI

VSG on 03/13/12

I'm sorry to do this I REALLY AM! But I have to point out how I feel right now. Shari, it seems like everytime Jerz posts something (not just this thread) you have something kind of negative towards her that always starts some kind of confrontation in post form. From the beginning when she first started coming here yea everyone was kind of against her...shoot she pushed my buttons but I try to take her thoughts into perspective as well. Why degrade her all of the time?

JerseyGirl1969
on 3/13/08 2:49 am - Milford, NJ

Christa, she's playing the Alpha female. Whenever one senses another, a catfight ensues. I don't play that game. She has a deep seeded need to. I don't. I know my strength.

Jupiter6
on 3/13/08 2:50 am - Near Media, Pa- South of Philly, NJ

RNY on 07/16/07

I don't do well with people who put others down when they walk into a room. I tried to make peace earlier in this thread, but got more of the same "holier than thou" attitude, and I frankly give up. I am sure she has much to contribute but the attitude gets in the way-- many people have emailed me privately about it-- I figured it was more honest to mention it IN the forum, so we could clear the air!

"Oh sweet and sour Jesus, that is GOOD!" - Stephen Colbert Lap RNY 7/07-- Lap Gallbladder 5/08--
     Emergency Bowel Repair 6/08 -Dr. Meilahn, Temple U.   Upper and Lower Bleph/Lower Face Lift
     12/08
     Fraxel Repair 2/09-- Lower Bleph Re-Do 5/09  -Dr. Pontell, Media PA Mastopexy/Massive
     Brachioplasty/ Extended Abdominoplasty (plus Mons Lift and Upper Leg lift) / Hernia Repair
     6/24/09 ---Butt Lift and Lateral Thighplasty Scheduled 7/6/10 - Dr. Ivor Kaplan VA Beach
     Total Cost: $33,500   Start wt: 368   RNY wt: 300 Goal wt: 150   Current wt: 148.2 BMI: 24.7

JerseyGirl1969
on 3/13/08 2:58 am - Milford, NJ

Oh, I was so not going to respond, but I just have to say, pot calling kettle? I mean I find your "I must teach you how to be" holier than thou and a constant put down of me and some others. And guess what my dear, I get emails about you too. Too much. Why don't we just hit ignore? 1, 2, 3 You're just not worth the drama and have never offered anything of value IMO. You truly need to work on what's going on inside you before you bring it in here....

Jupiter6
on 3/13/08 3:09 am - Near Media, Pa- South of Philly, NJ

RNY on 07/16/07

You asked for advice. I gave it. You don't like it. You were on ignore. Unfortunately, you consumed so much of the forum that it became otherwise unreadable. Easier to stay out of the forum, especially if, in your estimation, I've never offered anything of value. I'm sure people will tell me when it's time.

"Oh sweet and sour Jesus, that is GOOD!" - Stephen Colbert Lap RNY 7/07-- Lap Gallbladder 5/08--
     Emergency Bowel Repair 6/08 -Dr. Meilahn, Temple U.   Upper and Lower Bleph/Lower Face Lift
     12/08
     Fraxel Repair 2/09-- Lower Bleph Re-Do 5/09  -Dr. Pontell, Media PA Mastopexy/Massive
     Brachioplasty/ Extended Abdominoplasty (plus Mons Lift and Upper Leg lift) / Hernia Repair
     6/24/09 ---Butt Lift and Lateral Thighplasty Scheduled 7/6/10 - Dr. Ivor Kaplan VA Beach
     Total Cost: $33,500   Start wt: 368   RNY wt: 300 Goal wt: 150   Current wt: 148.2 BMI: 24.7

JerseyGirl1969
on 3/13/08 3:13 am - Milford, NJ

I have never asked you for advice, because I don't think you offer sound advice to begin with. It's always skewed from your POV that is a little wonky and cold to me. Not the kind of person I wish to be (or know).

Neecee O.
on 3/13/08 11:32 pm - CA

Look...does not matter what you think your actions & intentions were...Ian does not want to be around you. And...so what? Just by you sticking around you shows that IF he had spoken to you, you would have written it off as completely ridiculous and still did this Kling-on act! Ian could not win here, but you will get your way. Staying with this team so you can mope and show how emotive you are? Talk about unproductive all around. Cut the poor bum some slack and split.

JerseyGirl1969
on 3/14/08 1:53 am - Milford, NJ

You're not getting what was happening. It either resonates with you or it doesn't.... You call it klingy just means you don't get it. Goal was not to mope and show how emotive. Not what i'm about. Anyway, this is where you and I part on the topic because you're dealing with your own construct....

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