Feel like I am starving!!!
I personally think fit goes hand in hand with weight loss. It boost the self esteem, which is important. It boosts the metabolism, and it prevents or limits the need for costly surgery. My trainer lost 180lbs and you'd never know it. When asked how, he said he built up first and then whittled down. So far for me, I'm finding the same. But I am also biased on this because I don't believe losing weight is just about getting the lbs off, it's about being your healthiest (from food to activities and abilities). I'd rather increase my bone density from weight lifting and stave off osteoporosis. I'd rather have a healthy metabolism. The weight loss just comes along with the fitness.
I think being desperate to lose the weight can make you make the wrong, least healthy decisions....
JM2C.