Mind over matter?

violamom
on 12/3/07 5:59 am - veradale, WA

You can SEE your navel??? I AM impressed! LOL

What I've eaten is here for the world to see
336.1 (8-1-07)/319.0 (12-28-07)/200 (goal for 12-31-08)/160 (goal)
Next mini goal is 290 by 1-31-08

Jupiter6
on 12/3/07 6:01 am - Near Media, Pa- South of Philly, NJ

RNY on 07/16/07

From SPACE!

"Oh sweet and sour Jesus, that is GOOD!" - Stephen Colbert Lap RNY 7/07-- Lap Gallbladder 5/08--
     Emergency Bowel Repair 6/08 -Dr. Meilahn, Temple U.   Upper and Lower Bleph/Lower Face Lift
     12/08
     Fraxel Repair 2/09-- Lower Bleph Re-Do 5/09  -Dr. Pontell, Media PA Mastopexy/Massive
     Brachioplasty/ Extended Abdominoplasty (plus Mons Lift and Upper Leg lift) / Hernia Repair
     6/24/09 ---Butt Lift and Lateral Thighplasty Scheduled 7/6/10 - Dr. Ivor Kaplan VA Beach
     Total Cost: $33,500   Start wt: 368   RNY wt: 300 Goal wt: 150   Current wt: 148.2 BMI: 24.7

JerseyGirl1969
on 12/3/07 7:27 am, edited 12/3/07 7:43 am - Milford, NJ

My God! To suggest I'm a mindless sycophant because I want to be generous to him. To suggest I have self esteem or insecurity issues. It's clear to me *****ally has issues. I do not follow him like a god, I apply his knowledge toward my goals, yes, but what he has shared is corroborated by his peers as well as many fitness books and articles. Most in the fitness world hold this type of program to be best for weight loss. I accept that because I have seen it work miracles on me.

For those who wish to continue to try to toy with me, I wish you peace in your souls....

violamom
on 12/3/07 7:46 am - veradale, WA

Perhaps you misunderstood the observation. I simply thought that perhaps you had developed a bit of a crush on him. As I said I dont think this is unusual.... ESPECIALLY if one has issues regarding self esteem (although it is entireley possible even if one has no esteem issues whatsoever) Early on in your blog you spoke about your feelings about your body and how that affected your ability to have a relationship. You also spoke about the troubles that Ian was having in his relationship, and how you hoped that he too would find the love he deserves. It is not a huge jump for any woman to make from there to a crush on a man that you work closely with and share deepest fears and thoughts with.... All too often women in that situation begin to forget that while he really may be a nice guy you are PAYING him to spend time with you and to care about your success. It is his job to be supportive and kind, caring and nurturing.... and with a trainer - hot too.... LOL It happens all the time with doctors, therapists, teachers and trainers to name a few. and no one said mindless... for the record, that was your adjective.

What I've eaten is here for the world to see
336.1 (8-1-07)/319.0 (12-28-07)/200 (goal for 12-31-08)/160 (goal)
Next mini goal is 290 by 1-31-08

JerseyGirl1969
on 12/3/07 7:52 am - Milford, NJ

No, I totally understood the statement (not observation) and take umbrage because it's out of place and the intent, to inflame was clear and frankly inappropriate (as it has been all along). Sure, people develop crushes on trainers all the time. But that's not relative here. And on my bllog I spoke about how others' interpretations of my body impacted my relationships, NOT my ability to have one. I'm a healthy individual. And what I spoke about his relationship was because he's very dear. He did deserve more. And no, he's not hot. I've dated hot men. He's attractive, but not hot.

Jupiter6
on 12/3/07 10:44 am, edited 12/3/07 10:44 am - Near Media, Pa- South of Philly, NJ

RNY on 07/16/07

I will not suggest you're a mindless sycophant. I will outright declare that you're a mindful one. As for the peace in my soul, could I have cash instead?

"Oh sweet and sour Jesus, that is GOOD!" - Stephen Colbert Lap RNY 7/07-- Lap Gallbladder 5/08--
     Emergency Bowel Repair 6/08 -Dr. Meilahn, Temple U.   Upper and Lower Bleph/Lower Face Lift
     12/08
     Fraxel Repair 2/09-- Lower Bleph Re-Do 5/09  -Dr. Pontell, Media PA Mastopexy/Massive
     Brachioplasty/ Extended Abdominoplasty (plus Mons Lift and Upper Leg lift) / Hernia Repair
     6/24/09 ---Butt Lift and Lateral Thighplasty Scheduled 7/6/10 - Dr. Ivor Kaplan VA Beach
     Total Cost: $33,500   Start wt: 368   RNY wt: 300 Goal wt: 150   Current wt: 148.2 BMI: 24.7

JerseyGirl1969
on 12/3/07 5:22 pm - Milford, NJ

I wish you peace. If you had it, you wouldn't opt to berate others. Everytime you do, it makes your state of mind clear for all to see.

Jupiter6
on 12/3/07 8:48 pm - Near Media, Pa- South of Philly, NJ

RNY on 07/16/07

And if you had peace, you would not feel the need to evangelize or cram your ideology down other people's throats. You'd tell how you are doing and let other people benefit from your experience without being rude. People here asked you politely to stop and you did not listen. You became defensive and even more insensitive. I gave you back what you were giving. Case closed.

"Oh sweet and sour Jesus, that is GOOD!" - Stephen Colbert Lap RNY 7/07-- Lap Gallbladder 5/08--
     Emergency Bowel Repair 6/08 -Dr. Meilahn, Temple U.   Upper and Lower Bleph/Lower Face Lift
     12/08
     Fraxel Repair 2/09-- Lower Bleph Re-Do 5/09  -Dr. Pontell, Media PA Mastopexy/Massive
     Brachioplasty/ Extended Abdominoplasty (plus Mons Lift and Upper Leg lift) / Hernia Repair
     6/24/09 ---Butt Lift and Lateral Thighplasty Scheduled 7/6/10 - Dr. Ivor Kaplan VA Beach
     Total Cost: $33,500   Start wt: 368   RNY wt: 300 Goal wt: 150   Current wt: 148.2 BMI: 24.7

Christa :]
on 12/3/07 10:18 pm - MI

VSG on 03/13/12

I just wanted to say...I am a stylist....I want a gift. :)

brko
on 12/3/07 11:04 pm - MO

Too cute Christa. Brenda

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