Weekend report
Completely and totally evil, but hey if he loses her through no fault of yours....all is fair in love and war. 10/4/07 surgery 265, 11/7/07 1st fill 252, 12/27/07 2nd fill 243, 1/16/08 234, 2/27/08 3rd fill 230, 5/18/08 209, 6/12/08 home scale 200!!!!!!!!!!! 10/22/08 1 yr......184, 11/4/08.....170, Pouch dilation in April 10, complete unfill. Starting over! 7/29/10-175 
If your friend's relationship falls apart, ixnay on the swoopage. At our age, people come out of that sorta stuff damaged and needful. Be her friend, hang near her, and decide over time if the swoopage seems like a good idea. Wait. Seriously. No, seriously. I mean it. "Oh sweet and sour Jesus, that is GOOD!" - Stephen Colbert Lap RNY 7/07-- Lap Gallbladder 5/08--
Emergency Bowel Repair 6/08 -Dr. Meilahn, Temple U. Upper and Lower Bleph/Lower Face Lift 12/08
Fraxel Repair 2/09-- Lower Bleph Re-Do 5/09 -Dr. Pontell, Media PA Mastopexy/Massive
Brachioplasty/ Extended Abdominoplasty (plus Mons Lift and Upper Leg lift) / Hernia Repair
6/24/09 ---Butt Lift and Lateral Thighplasty Scheduled 7/6/10 - Dr. Ivor Kaplan VA Beach
Total Cost: $33,500 Start wt: 368 RNY wt: 300 Goal wt: 150 Current wt: 148.2 BMI: 24.7
Congrats, kid. Oh, and shut up.
-ShariWhoHasWeighedTheSameFor10Days "Oh sweet and sour Jesus, that is GOOD!" - Stephen Colbert Lap RNY 7/07-- Lap Gallbladder 5/08--
Emergency Bowel Repair 6/08 -Dr. Meilahn, Temple U. Upper and Lower Bleph/Lower Face Lift 12/08
Fraxel Repair 2/09-- Lower Bleph Re-Do 5/09 -Dr. Pontell, Media PA Mastopexy/Massive
Brachioplasty/ Extended Abdominoplasty (plus Mons Lift and Upper Leg lift) / Hernia Repair
6/24/09 ---Butt Lift and Lateral Thighplasty Scheduled 7/6/10 - Dr. Ivor Kaplan VA Beach
Total Cost: $33,500 Start wt: 368 RNY wt: 300 Goal wt: 150 Current wt: 148.2 BMI: 24.7
"Oh sweet and sour Jesus, that is GOOD!" - Stephen Colbert Lap RNY 7/07-- Lap Gallbladder 5/08--
Emergency Bowel Repair 6/08 -Dr. Meilahn, Temple U. Upper and Lower Bleph/Lower Face Lift 12/08
Fraxel Repair 2/09-- Lower Bleph Re-Do 5/09 -Dr. Pontell, Media PA Mastopexy/Massive
Brachioplasty/ Extended Abdominoplasty (plus Mons Lift and Upper Leg lift) / Hernia Repair
6/24/09 ---Butt Lift and Lateral Thighplasty Scheduled 7/6/10 - Dr. Ivor Kaplan VA Beach
Total Cost: $33,500 Start wt: 368 RNY wt: 300 Goal wt: 150 Current wt: 148.2 BMI: 24.7
Now's a great time to be a friend, while you work to get your own house in order. Don't let being lonely make you do anything foolish, bunny.
Besides-- there's always ME to talk to-- if you don't mind living under the constant threat of physical injury!
"Oh sweet and sour Jesus, that is GOOD!" - Stephen Colbert Lap RNY 7/07-- Lap Gallbladder 5/08--
Emergency Bowel Repair 6/08 -Dr. Meilahn, Temple U. Upper and Lower Bleph/Lower Face Lift 12/08
Fraxel Repair 2/09-- Lower Bleph Re-Do 5/09 -Dr. Pontell, Media PA Mastopexy/Massive
Brachioplasty/ Extended Abdominoplasty (plus Mons Lift and Upper Leg lift) / Hernia Repair
6/24/09 ---Butt Lift and Lateral Thighplasty Scheduled 7/6/10 - Dr. Ivor Kaplan VA Beach
Total Cost: $33,500 Start wt: 368 RNY wt: 300 Goal wt: 150 Current wt: 148.2 BMI: 24.7
Hi Al (U dawg U), I am somewhere in between Kriz and Shari on your question about your fantasy swoopage! First of all, you is 90% right that this is a fantasy. She might think your **** looks good right now and you obviously think hers does not stink either. If you are an honorable man (and I really believe you are) DO NOT throw her a bone of any kind that you might be interested. If it is too late and you already done that, take it back NOW. Tell her you were fantasizing and if she is even thinking in any way you and her might hook up, there would be a cool off period so that both of you can take a step back A BIG STEP back and check your motivations here. Hopefully you have not been googly eyed in any way, just a big brother. If so, play it very carefully. She needs to decide that the current relationship is plain worng and that she would be better off alone than in that one. Don't offer anther vine for her to swing toward. That would be wrong, trust me here.
If she leaves him eventually cuz it's a sucky relationship, well then...swoop away. If she leaves thinking somehow you are the grand prize, there will be a big price to pay for that amigo. Good luck...may you find the love of your life, my buddy!
