need help!

How do you give a male baby shower? I am trying to plan a baby shower for my cousin who is in his early thirties. This is his first baby and he is a very matcho guy. I need major suggestions

the only thing i can come up with is a regular family party style party - probably supper, like BBQ meat & salads. Maybe like 2 funny baby-themed games, like diapering a doll race or stroller obstacle course with baby dolls in them! I think that is a sweet idea. What a good cuz you are!

don't know about a shower but there are some intersting manly baby gifts at www.uncommongoods.com - they have some cute and funny man oriented things... for example, this manly diaper bag gift set http://www.uncommongoods.com/item/item.jsp?source=family&itemId=13702