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LunaChic
on 2/7/12 4:38 am - Newark, NJ
VSG on 04/12/12
Topic: RE: Wrapped up in "what if"s...
Thank you for your reply MaryC!

I will definately post this on the VSG board.

You are right...  Healthier with extra skin is definately a lot better than unhealthy, fat, and out of shape!

I guess i just don't want to be part of that group of people that goes crazy with their new-found body.  I had one friend who went crazy with plastic surgery -- she literally would take vacations in Columbia on a yearly basis to get her procedures done cheaper.  I had another friend who went through addiction transfer and found herself depressed.  A third friend didn't know how to handle her new confidence and turned into a club-hopping maniac, drinking and hanging out every chance she could get.

I am hoping that these will be lessons learned through other's experiences and that I can learn all the do's and don'ts of WLS.  After reading your response I decided to call the doctor's office and make my first consultation appointment.  :)
maryc543
on 2/7/12 3:50 am
Topic: RE: Back to basics
It must be hard to eat well and exercise when you're on tour.  I wish you good luck on your re-start, and hope you post your successes here!  Mary C

DS Part 1 (VSG) 11/14/06 DS Part 2 12/18/07
HW 430 SW 400 CW 210 GW 170 Blog: lifeisgood-mc.blogspot.com

maryc543
on 2/7/12 3:48 am
Topic: RE: Wrapped up in "what if"s...
Welcome!  the Jersey board is somewhat quiet, so if you don't get many responses, you should try and copy your post to the VSG board....  
     I can't answer your questions about extra skin...  I'm 2 decades older... and lost the equivalent of your entire body....  so I HAVE some serious skin droopage,  It would seem that your skin will have more elasticity, and your weight loss is not so dramatic, it may be a very minor issue.
     Just pick one....  healthier overall with some skin issues, or fatter overall with some health issues...  hmmm, not such a hard choice!   (OK, I'm prejudiced...  WLS was a life saver for me)...
Good Luck, and I hope you get some answers from peeps closer to your age/weight! 
Mary C

DS Part 1 (VSG) 11/14/06 DS Part 2 12/18/07
HW 430 SW 400 CW 210 GW 170 Blog: lifeisgood-mc.blogspot.com

LunaChic
on 2/6/12 11:11 pm - Newark, NJ
VSG on 04/12/12
Topic: Wrapped up in "what if"s...
Hello Everyone,

As a new member, let me introduce myself.  I am a 33 yr old technology professional in North NJ.  I'm about 5'1" and weigh about 240lbs and have been considering VSG for about a year and a half now.  I've been overweight for most of my adult life and have managed to lose up to 50lbs on my own, but always wind up gaining it back and starting the unhealthy cycle again.

I've been considering WLS for so long and have not taken action because I am getting caught up in all the "what if"s of post-surgery.  I've done all my research and have spoken with many friends who have also undergone WLS with amazing results.  i have chosen a doctor who I feel comfortable with based on the experiences my friends have had. I believe I am a prime candidate for WLS due to many complications I am having due to my weight, but all of the possibilities after surgery are whats holding me back.

Believe it or not, I actually fear being "too skinny" and wonder if I will like the way I look post-surgery.  I am concerned that I may have way too much excess skin and will down a path of multiple plastic surgeries just to have a "normal" looking body (I know someone who went crazy with their body image and had multiple plastic surgeries).  Yet, on the flip-side, I am concerned for my health and feel that this is the best time for me to undergo WLS now while I am younger before these health conditions really settle in.  I want to be healthier and happier and more fit.  I love working out and last, but not least, I want to be able to stop shying behind my size (I tend to cocoon myself).

Has anyone else who has undergone surgery had these concerns?  How did you over come them?  Has anyone else around my size experienced problems with too much skin post-weight-loss? 
Barbi M.
on 2/5/12 9:35 pm - Maplewood, NJ
Topic: Back to basics
 I am currently on the National tour of "Fiddler on the Roof" traveling across the US and Canada,  weight gain of 12lbs has me trying to get back to basics. So I am posting on the OH forum for much needed support and advice.  Working out and getting back on proteins is my first step.  
                
Nannette
on 2/1/12 11:11 pm - Toms River, NJ
Topic: Reminder - Toms River OCWLS Support Group - Friday, February 3rd

Just a brief reminder that tomorrow, Friday, February 3rd is the next regularly scheduled Toms River OCWLS (Ocean County Weight Loss) Support Group Meeting – Community Medical Center, Aud A at 7pm.

 

No registration necessary, just show up!

 

Ocean County Weight Loss Support Group (OCWLS)

 

Toms River:  Meets First Friday of Each Month 7-9 p.m.

Community Medical Center – Auditorium A

Hospital Drive & Route 37 West, Toms River, NJ

 

 Toms River 2012 Meeting Schedule

1.       February 3, 2012

2.       March 2, 2012

3.       April 6, 2012

4.       May 4, 2012

5.       June 1, 2012

6.       July 13, 2012 (2nd Friday)- Aud B

7.       August 3, 2012

8.       September 7, 2012

9.       October 5, 2012

10.   November 2, 2012

11.   December 7, 2012 – Holiday Party

 

The Ocean County Weight Loss Surgery (OCWLS) Support Group is a peer-to-peer group which is open to individuals who have undergone various types of weight loss surgery, or to those who are anticipating or planning this kind of lifestyle change.  Supportive family members and friends are also welcome.

Our group members have had their surgeries performed by various WLS surgeons and hospitals, and we are not affiliated with any specific WLS surgeon or hospital.

Pre-Registration is Not Required.  If you require any further information, feel free to contact me.

Note:  OCWLS Support Group employs a self-help model and does not give medical advice.  Any information provided and/or obtained during the meetings is for educational purposes only and is not intended nor recommended as a substitute for professional medical advice. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health care professional regarding any medical condition or treatment.

Nannette
Lap RNY 6/16/03
Revise to DS 8/15/11

Sheri A.
on 1/31/12 6:51 pm
Topic: Peer to Peer Support Group
First Saturday Support is a peer to peer run support group that meets the first Saturday of each month at RWJ Fitness in Scotch Plains from 10:30 - noon. It was founded in March 2007 by two bariatric patients and has grown over the last 5 years to a wonderful group of caring and supportive people who discuss many different topics pertaining to bariatrics. Everyone is welcome, we are a co-ed group and all types of surgery is represented, pre ops are encouraged! The facility has free childcare and you can work out afterwards, there is an olympic size pool, a therapy pool, hot tub, sauna and steam room, locker rooms and all sorts of equipment available! We are not affiliated with any doctor or hospital and sometimes have guest speakers/presentations. We meet again this Saturday, February 4, and will have a guest speaker for part of the meeting! Address of the fitness center is: 2120 Lamberts Mill Rd, 07076. Email: firstsaturdaysuppport@gmail for further information! Hope to see you there!
maryc543
on 1/31/12 11:33 am
Topic: RE: Size Friendly Dentists in NJ
I remember asking my dentist, and was told the chair held up to 400 pounds....  Otherwise, the rest of the equipment is standard.....     would that be a friendly enough size?  Please post more info, like what county, what size, etc...   and what insurance....   I think UMDNJ in Newark still has a clinic for the not insured....    Good Luck!   Mary 

DS Part 1 (VSG) 11/14/06 DS Part 2 12/18/07
HW 430 SW 400 CW 210 GW 170 Blog: lifeisgood-mc.blogspot.com

njfisherman
on 1/30/12 11:57 pm
Topic: RE: MEDICAID AND MEDICARE SURGEONS LIST!
I am in desperate need to find a baratric surgeon that takes my husbands insurance, he has HORIZON BLUE CROSS BLUE SHIELD MEDICARE ADVANTAGE BLUE VALUE- BLUE ACCESS AND WE LIVE IN MORRIS COUNTY NJ. no one takes this insurance. thank you gerald and rosemary gross.
SheesesPieces
on 1/30/12 1:56 am - NJ
Topic: Size Friendly Dentists in NJ

Can anyone recommend a dentist in NJ with size friendly equipment? I lost a filling over the weekend and my mouth is killing me. 

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