i need some hlep

I posted a while back about no sex drive, i was wondering how do you broach this subject with a person that is always so doubtful of your fidelity. Thanks for your help? Just a note "I HAVE NEVER EVER CHEATED ON HIM SINCE WE MET WHICH WAS 6 YEARS AGO" but he still believes that I have. Tyshea 315/189/150

Hi Tyshea: I am not knowledgeable enough to respond... but the NJ Forum is apparently dead... First of all congratulations on your over 120 lbs weight loss... Second, you may want to post your question in the general forum. There seems to be a lot more help there... Third, with such a private matter, you may want to see a marriage counsellor with him... Fourth, my opinion, is that you perhaps should assign an hour to talk to him openly... assure him of your love... explain what you are going through and help him be on your side and fully support you... Hope this helps... Neil www.gastricbypasstips.com

Tyshea, It sounds like an in-security issue with your partner. I am also afraid of that happening with my husband after I have the surgery. I am praying it doesn't happen. My suggestion is to keep assuring him that you love him. You might have to go out of your way!!! Do things that you haven't done before... Prayers and Blessings your way!!! Congrats on your weight loss!!! Hopefully I will be joining you on the other side in Jan. Be Blessed Bea