almost 9 months out

i am almost 9 months out(surgery date 12/10/08) I still cannot consume more than little bits of food without getting sick!!! my husband had his rny on 7/31/08 and can eat almost a whole plate. he insists somethings wrong. Surgeon says this is normal but it dont feel normal. I've lost 125 lbs so far. Anyone having a simaliar problem????
mary