I feel like I got "FIRED" by my Therapist!

(deactivated member)
on 11/18/08 9:13 am - NJ

Thanks Jen!   The check is in the mail!   hehehehehe 
Melissa C.
on 11/18/08 10:42 pm - KEANSBURG, NJ
Hi Vicki,

I would take it as a compliment, your not crazy.  Like you said you know where to go for support, and you do know exactly what to do, because you have done it!!!  Keep up the good work, and continued success on your journey!

Melissa C

Plum1967
on 11/19/08 3:08 am
Hi Vic.

I'm a little confused... did she tell you NOT to come back?  Or did you tell her that you do know what you need to do... that what you need help with is sticking to it?

Hey... therapy definately isn't for everyone, and not every therapist has the right "style" for each potential patient.

It does seem like you have a good head on your shoulders, so stick with the support groups and stuff like you said and I'm sure you will be fine.

Just remember... everything that goes into your mouth should be a CONSCIOUS decision... no mindless eating!

~ wendy

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(deactivated member)
on 11/19/08 7:37 am - NJ

Nope - the therapist told me not to come back.

Oh well, I'll just keep doing what I'm doing......
DJ
on 11/19/08 11:29 am - Parsippany, NJ
That is just amazing... you found the one honest therapist who wasn't interested in their paycheck.
Well, you are obviously doing something right..so don't sweat it... if you really want to go to therapy try someone else.. but I am not an advocate.. I got nothing out of it when I tried it at your stage.
stay in control and you will be great..
Have a great holidy.. and don't be afraid of the food.... that is the best advice I can give you .
Donna
DrMichaelSakowitz
on 11/20/08 2:43 am
A view from the other chair......

The ending of treatment ought to be done as compasionately as the beginning, with a complete discussion of the issues and with the opportunity for the patient to express and explore their feelings fully.

Sure sounds like you never got that, I am sorry......

If you continue to feel like the issues that you had at the start of treatment are still with you I would urge you to get the support you want.  Just like every bagel is not the best so it is true for therapists.

Dr Mike
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thinkingthin68
on 11/20/08 2:59 am - South Amboy, NJ
Hi Vic,
  I just met you at our get together and you are and awesome person so dont doubt yourself. Your enjoying your new look and u do look great so smile and see you on Dec 6..Any problems we can all talk and help each other...
Happy Thanksgiving !!!!!!!

Denise
(deactivated member)
on 11/20/08 12:59 pm - NJ
Thank you Denise!

It was great meeting you and I wish you alot of luck in your journey!  That's the best part of being on this board - so many people are willing to help each other!  We are truly in this together and it does help sometimes!

Happy Thanksgiving!
Vicki
Danielle B.
on 11/22/08 7:50 am - Hamburg, NJ
What's going on on December 6th?  another get together????
I missed the last 2, hope to make it to another one..
(deactivated member)
on 11/22/08 10:53 am - NJ
Hi danielle

It's that Saturday support group Sherri runs - a bunch were talking about going.  Don't think I'm gonna make it - I already have about 3 things planned and have to figure out which I can do!

Vic
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