New Kid on the Block
While I can't help you with your Doctor .. nor do I have a little girl or husband
You may hit a stumbling block or two along the way to your operation, but that’s expected - and in the end, it all works out.
Please feel free to ask any specific questions you have. Either via the board (and as I newbie I can tell you the folks here are the most helpful bunch you’ll ever find), or email.
Good luck to you !! I wish you all the best !!