I'm Approved!!!!!!

I can't even begin to explain how I feel. I just received the good news that my husband's insurance approved my surgery for May 21st. I'm elated, and walking in air. My husband is extremely apathetic towards the whole thing. I wish he was sharing my joy right now, but I just told him and he didn't respond one way or another. Well, he did, his silence speak louder than words, but, you know what? I don't care!!!!!!!! Nothing is going to take this moment away from me. I feel skinnier already.  Nereida

Congratulations!!!!!   May 21st will be here before you know it! It is a strange feeling isn't it?  Excited, nervous, excited, scared, excited.... oh, did I say Excited? Best of Luck to you!!!!!

Hi Nereida, My prayers for you were answered!!!!  Congratulations!!!!  I am so happy for you!!!!  I will be praying for you on May 21st!!!! 

Congrats and Good Luck !!

AWESOME news! Hubby's respond to this thing so much differently - I think most of it is fear, actually.  It is after all major surgery - and they don't want their wife to be hurt, in pain, or god forbid, have any complications.  I know this was the case of my husband.  He was fine with my decision until he came with me to my pre admission testing (the first meeting at the hospital he was able to make due to work schedules) and he got REAL scared and actually said to me "You know i love you the way you are, and you don't have to do this if you don't want to?"  I told him I knew that - but I wasn't doing it for him (I would NEVER do anything like that for anyone but myself) that I was doing it for me, and I just needed his support.  And, men being men, they don't voice opinions or emotions all that easy (most of the time) so quiet it is. Again, CONGRATS!!! Pam

congrats nereida and best of luck with your surgery. this if for YOU, either your husband may come to see this, or he doesnt.  but its about you and what you need in your life. huggzzzzzzzzz, jacki