RNY questions-need to know your experience

Janine - Your story really touched me.  I went to your OH site and looked at the photos of your boys.  They are beautiful.  I agree that the "dumping" is nothing compared to the two beautiful gifts you now have in those boys.  I am much older than you and am expecting my first grandchild and one of my sons is getting married next year.  I want to be around to enjoy all of it.  God Bless you, your hubby, and your boys.  :-)  Michele