Just Ranting

Ho hum.  I"m an emotional wreck at the moment...... The relationship w/ the in laws has not been the best from the very beginning, even the DH can't stand them (and those are HIS parents)  They have unfortunately been going through some rough times medical related...and it's been rough on all.  I unfortunately (or fortunately at times) do not get to see them to much because I work nights and I work every other weekend.  And I also have to have time with my family and supporting my brother in his battles and what not.....so anyway...mom in law always *****es that I dont' get to see them, and I'm not supportive of their needs, and why don't I come up EVERY weekend and blah blah blah blah don't I care about them and as a nurse, I should be sympathetic to their needs...yadda yadda yadda....so today mom in law has a doctors appointment that the hubby (mine) as she said, NEEDS to drive her to because she is in pain today.  Great!  I had off last night so I can go too!!  YAY!!  Now I get to see her, offer my support, do all those things that just two days I ago she was *****ing about.  I was actually looking forward to it.  So the hubby calls her back and says yep, no prob, WE will be up there in a few hours (they live about 45 mins away) in time for the doctors appointment.  Oh wait....SHE'S coming??? (that was her actual response) Never mind then...I'll have daddy (her hubby) drive me...she shouldn't come up just for doctors appointments...that's stupid...now the hubby is mad, I'm crying....the father in law called...said the same thing...I shouldn't be around when they are sick...I shouldn't come to doctors appointments....Well would SOMEBODY PLEASE MAKE UP THEIR MINDS.....sheesh.......