I am a Divorce Statistic!

debadove
on 11/3/10 8:32 pm - Lenoir, NC
Well it's been a long time since I've been on here but I'm gonna try to update everything..but I am a divorce statistic now..in January I finally realized why I weighed nearly 500 lbs. and kept stuffing myself..I was soooo unhappy and never admitted it until I had no choice but to do so..So now I'm seperated, getting a divorce in January 2011 and absolutely Loving My New Life!!!
I never ever thought this would happen to me..I was married for 21 years and thought that was all life had to offer me..but when i finally admitted I was unhappy and knew I was the only one who could change it..and I did and it was very very hard to do so but the outcome has been worth all I've been thru..I won't reget my past because it has brought me to my future..
I can't change my profile pic cuz I don't know how to get a small pic but I did post some new pics..I've lost 240 lbs. since July 2008 and had a total knee replacement on Sept 1 2010..It is doing very well and soon I hope to be hiking! Hope to hear from some of you..Have a simply marvelous day to all!

Barbara C.
on 11/4/10 1:05 am - Raleigh, NC

Hi Deb,

Congratulations on your phenomenal transformation. While I can see the same beautiful smile and eyes shining back at me, I would not have immediately recognized the new person looking back at me. I imagine that happens to you a lot these days.

I'm glad that you are not only well, but now happy. 

Wishing you all the best in all areas of your new life,

Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145

Anniep59
on 11/6/10 10:56 pm - Pittsboro, NC
 Congratulations to you Deb and finding your new life.
I waited 17 years for my first husband to change and found I was the one who had to change.
I got way up to a misrable 680lbs life was bad.
                                                                    Annie

It is never too late to be what you might have been.?


www.youravon.com/annieadams 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


 

debadove
on 11/10/10 10:09 pm - Lenoir, NC
Hi Annie..I always think about you when I start cruising O H! I'm so glad you are doing well..and I can tell you know  exactly where I've been and where I'm at..
Life was miserable and I didn't even realize why.
.I just kept stuffing and stuffing and when i couldn't stuff any more(lol)
I had to face facts..but now
everything is good and it was worth all I've been thru..
Thank you so much for you support and I wish you all the best!
Debbie

debadove
on 11/10/10 10:05 pm - Lenoir, NC
Thanks so much Barbara..yes i do get that a lot these day..lol even from myself..sometimes I don't know who is looking at me in the mirror..but it's a good thing..thank you so much for the support!
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